Seeking Independence from Parents

[mary_HRD_VFI]

---

You already have a good job and you're thinking of living on your own, BUT, your parents said you can only leave separate from them IF you get married.


What do you say?.. Speak out your opinion please...somebody might be in this dilemma.

[clarkhkent]

much better imo gyud usa ipakita sa imong parents nga andam naka mo separate nila i mean kaya na nimong mag inusara ba....kay kon dili gani di gyud na sila mosugot kay nagpaniid man sad gud na sila usahay sa imong lihok...

pero basin naa pud silay laing rason nganong dili ka sugtan...basin wala nay maka support nila financially bali na hadlok sila ba....

basta istoryaha na ninyo kay igo ra jud me sa pagtambag dre....nya tungod sad sa tong culture nga close family ties....lisud gyud na mahitabo....

aw unsa sad diay imong reason nga mobuwag ka nila? e PM lang kon dili ka gusto mahibaw ang uban....

[rainwax]

dili jud lalim ma-independent
gotta face a lot of challenges and trials along the way..

[citacar]

kung huna-hunaon, garbo man sya tan-awon sa bata labi na if pareha ra og city or syudad sa parents..why not share with the expenses of the parents house rather than spend it for paying a bedspace or room.

on the other hand, when we grow older, we tend to have different views from our parents which we would like to live by, that is when living not under the roof of our parents becomes a valuable thought. for me and for me to do that, i would get a job distant from my parents, mag pa assign ko og lain syudad..so I would have reason enough for them to understand that it is part of me growing old to live independently and not a drastic choice just to get away from home..

[cebu1029]

You already have a good job and you're thinking of living on your own, BUT, your parents said you can only leave separate from them IF you get married.


What do you say?.. Speak out your opinion please...somebody might be in this dilemma.

talk with your parents. that you are starting to be independent!

[abuot]

if tiguwang na jud ka,you have every right to move out on your own..
..

[lraM]

Mao. ug makabuhi nka sa imo kaugalingon.

[Dorothea]

You already have a good job and you're thinking of living on your own, BUT, your parents said you can only leave separate from them IF you get married.


What do you say?.. Speak out your opinion please...somebody might be in this dilemma.

Just as children should respect their parents, parents need to respect their children too. If you've decided to live on your own, your parents need to understand and respect that decision.

[carmie]

Just as children should respect their parents, parents need to respect their children too. If you've decided to live on your own, your parents need to understand and respect that decision.

i agree basta financially and emotionally ready hehe it doesn't mean that your living on your own you are already detached to your parents. Your parents might be worried, to live on your own.

[grlnxtdor16]

just talk to your parents nlng..they wil eventually understand