Letting Go of the One you Love

[missie22]

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guys help me how to move on... naa ko uyab 1 yrs kapin nami... and i found out iya ra diay ko gi buang... i love dat person so much.. ganahan ko makalimot nku niya but i dnt knw how... all i felt right now is hatred and revenge...

muving on is rilly the hardest part of a relationship..and let me ask u have u rilly muved on or ur still in the part of denial..taas raba ang process sa muving on..crying, grudge, denial, acceptance, muving on but then magbalik2x paka ani sa crying, grudge ug denial usa ka maabot sa acceptance.. expect gyd nga mag balik2x ka ug feel ana

while your on the stage of grudge (as wat ive observed k naa may " revenge") sucked that feeling i mean hala pag tagbaw ana nga feeling hantod maabot ka sa kakapoy ana nga feeling..pra mka muvon k coz if u wont embrace dat feeling karn magbalik2x gyd ka k di paman ka kapoyon..pag tagbaw ana nga feeling until such tym ull tell ur self...

" i had enuf" its tym to muv on...

[zney25]

yup at first maka feel jud ka og ing.ana,that you want revenge...and you hate the person coz youre hurt....

its natural for the person being hurt...i my myself experience that...
but you have just to let go...being happy for that person...what i did is...being busy with my work and so...
stop thinking about that person,start a new life....

i just put it in my mind that,life goes on,there is still really for me...maybe that person is not really meant for you...just be happy for that person...
then move on...

[nadine eidloth]

pasaylo ug pagdawat ra na.
hinuon dili sayon pero hulata lang ayaw lang pugsa kay ikaw ra gihapon ang masakitan

[uwagan]

babango ako't dudurigin kita! pramis! heheheh

[jhay86]

lisud mani buhaton.. heheh

[sexyjelly]

haaaaayyyyy... nice kaayo ang feeling nga imu ma let go imu partner esp. if you know mao jud nah imu dapat buhaton...

[rainwax]

bahala lisod...
ako jud ni buhaton..heheh

[lady_yan]

if you really think that there's no more chance for your love for that person to grow and you feel like you really suck being in that relationship, i think the best way is to let go. even if it huts, its still the proper way out. Yes, i agree that letting go and moving is really SSOOOO difficult. especially when you come to be sooo attached and so in love with your partner..
but if you have passed through the stages of letting go and moving on,,, you'll be happy,,, and you might suddenly find meaning with all those pains you have gone through...
there's always someone out there who can be right for you... so don't think that someone whom you really love now but keeps on hurting you is the only person who can love you.. in the first place, if he/she really loves you, there's no way he/she will do anything to hurt you right?
so,,, always hope for the best... if you decide it is the best for the both of you to just let go and move on,,, then DO IT!!
no matter what happens after, be it regret or relief,,, its your decision and you have to face it.. there's always pain in this world but there is happiness also... don't be so trapped in your misery,,, there's always the SUN after the RAIN...
Take care ALL!!!

[rainwax]

if you really think that there's no more chance for your love for that person to grow and you feel like you really suck being in that relationship, i think the best way is to let go. even if it huts, its still the proper way out. Yes, i agree that letting go and moving is really SSOOOO difficult. especially when you come to be sooo attached and so in love with your partner..
but if you have passed through the stages of letting go and moving on,,, you'll be happy,,, and you might suddenly find meaning with all those pains you have gone through...
there's always someone out there who can be right for you... so don't think that someone whom you really love now but keeps on hurting you is the only person who can love you.. in the first place, if he/she really loves you, there's no way he/she will do anything to hurt you right?
so,,, always hope for the best... if you decide it is the best for the both of you to just let go and move on,,, then DO IT!!
no matter what happens after, be it regret or relief,,, its your decision and you have to face it.. there's always pain in this world but there is happiness also... don't be so trapped in your misery,,, there's always the SUN after the RAIN...
Take care ALL!!!

very well said...

[frenchfries]

letting go means sacrifice.
paitah pod btaw ni akong life oy!makauyab ko,cge lang ko byaan.
naging thme song ko na nga ang kntang "saan?saan ako nagkamali?