What Women Want

[blanne]

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Does money really matter in a guy?
--no. what matters is if he is capable to earn some ka-chings..

Does he have to have a thick wallet?
--again, no. pareha raman ni sa first Q uy.. hehe

Would you leave a guy who used to have money and now doesn't?
--if and only if i answered him yes for his money which i doubt would ever happen. hehe. dili uy. intawn. kamabaw ba ana na reason. hehehe

Is even leaving a guy who has no money or no work a valid reason to leave a guy?
--di jud. valid ra kung wa pud xa nangita ug paagi para makatrabaho. hehehehe.

[biik]

Women tend to be more affected physically by marital stress and arguments
than men, a finding that contradicts earlier research, says psychologist
Scott Stanley of the University of Denver's Center for Marital and Family
Studies.

Several studies now show that poorly handled marital conflict "has negative
effects on the cardiovascular system (your heart), endocrine (hormones) and
immune system functioning" of both men and women, Stanley says.

"The latest research shows that women take the greater hit when it comes to
bodily stress reactions related to conflict in marriage," Stanley says in
the revised edition of his Fighting for Your Marriage, co-authored with
Howard Markman and Susan Blumberg and due this fall from Jossey-Bass.

His message to both sexes: "Do you want to live long and prosper? Take good
care of your mate and your marriage."


http://lists101.his.com/pipermail/sm...ly/000702.html

So if a man loves his wife, he will try his best not to give her financial stress and other stresses.

So, maninguha siya samot para dili magproblema yang asawa, aron dili magka heart attack. Ako, di ko gusto mamatay ug heart attack and mangunot sa problema mao it's one of the important requirements ang dili irresponsable ug dili lang ta pasagdan.

Independence? Dude, I tell you there are plenty of trade offs if you prefer your wife to be independent, there's a very thin line to them becoming too independent. You wanna look for an independent woman? They are mostly workaholic, career women. Them who love their jobs, take their jobs home, and goes home late at night because of their job. They impose on equality in the household. And generally, it erodes the husbands central position in the family.

[chad_tukes]

b4 katung naa pay work akong bf, he'd pamper me with every single thing i want..and really, having those made me feel happy considering the person who gave it to me and what he gave..
now? he's really broke. as in super broke na miskang piso wla jud cya..(luoy nuh?) and xempre girls always have "want" urges bya jud no matter what, which includes "honey, can u buy me this? or honey, buy me a dog pls?" iyang ma-ingon ra tawn kay paningkamutan nya..and its nice bya to hear mu ingon cya paningkamutan nya even tho u know he doesnt have a single money..but honestly? never ni sud sa akong mind na i'd leave him bcoz he's so damn broke..i love the guy, why would i leave him dba? leaving a person behind especially times when u need her the most would cause an emotional breakdown and some anxiety disorders..
all im saying is..a girl nver leaves a guy if she does truly love him. life is all about sacrifices and problems. this is just some trials to see if a couple makes their way thru. f they do then that would may everyone happy. if they don't well, let's just say there's someone out there alot better than that person. life is life. its what makes the world go round. ryt?

i agree with you. gamay ra babaye sa kalibutan pareha ug mentality nimo.

too bad most women don't care about those mentality disorders and emotional blah blahs... they're selfish.

[biik]

i agree with you. gamay ra babaye sa kalibutan pareha ug mentality nimo.

too bad most women don't care about those mentality disorders and emotional blah blahs... they're selfish.

kamo nalang, pareson!

[chad_tukes]

all i'm saying is, byaan lagi kay way kwarta ang lalaki...dba? pareha sa example ni @Xenodite, her bf used to have money but now he's broke, ni bisan pang gas siguro or palit napkin para sa iyang gf wala siya, nya everytime mu ask siya sa iyang bf, mu ana intawn iyang bf "paningkamutan lang na nato hon", at least bisag kahibaw ta nga way kwarta, naa sa iyang mind nga maninguha siya maka trabaho para ma satisfy iyang gf.

kung love gyud nimo ang taw dili nimo byaan just because he/she has no money. it's too shallow... ok, ang argument kay lagi he has to take care of his gf/wife blah blah... agree ko ana. pero at the same time sakto pud si @Xenodite, kung love nimo ang taw you will realize nga DILI NA FOREVER INGANA and trials rana sa inyong relationship kung unsa gyud ka strong.

kung di nimo love ang taw unya way kwarta, aw lahi napud ng storyaha. byaan oi way dugay-dugay!

[biik]

Sakto, mao na kamong mga guys like chad_tukes pangita pud mo ug girls pareha ni xenodike, kanang masinabtanon. It's an obvious compatibility factor. Yaw pud mo pangita ug pares nga pareha namo ug mentalidad. It's whatever makes people happy.

[chad_tukes]

MASINABTANON --- i guess 99% sa mga posters diri sa iSTORYA mu agree nako kung mu ingon ko nga kung masinabtanon ang both parties sa relationship, mu flourish gyud.

[biik]

For me there are some aspects in life that has no gray areas, it's either black or white.

[vianne217]

Does money really matter in a guy?

NO

Does he have to have a thick wallet?

NO

Would you leave a guy who used to have money and now doesn't?
NO

Is even leaving a guy who has no money or no work a valid reason to leave a guy?
Yes, that is if you're already trying to picture a future with him. I'm a romantic but I'm a practical person too.. I wouldn't want to end up with someone who can't provide for me, not for my wants but for my needs... I would leave a guy who has no dreams, tamad, no passion.. I want to be with someone who's passionate about the work that they do, I do not want to be with someone who doesn't even have a clear idea of what he wants out of life.

[vianne217]

and just to add to that, it's not actually about the guy not having money, it's more on uhh... how do I say it ba... kana bang lalake nga walay pangandoy, walay drive, walay goal sa life....you work hard to earn money, the guy doesn't have to be rich, for as long as he has a stable job and is hardworking, you can always work things out.. and if I end up with someone nga walay kuwenta, which I hope not, I definitely will leave the guy, we don't live on LOVE alone... we have to eat noh