do i have the right to be mad?

[chewbacca83]

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my present girlfriend had a "fling" with some guy who was a relative of her relative when she was vacationing in the states. they dated and took her sight seeing and i guess they had a good time. she admitted that she liked him then but not now.

recently the guy arrived here in cebu becuase his dad had committed suicide (bless his soul). She asked permission if she could take her cousin and the guy out since it was to return a favor for taking her out when she was in the U.S. She also pitied the guy since his dad had died and i guess she wanted to cheer them up. as a boyfriend, would you say yes to this? well i did becuase i trust her and she was gonna out with her friends also. they wouldnt be alone..

but as they went out.. they said they were going to pump (its a rnb and hiphop dance club here in cebu) i kept sending her messages and she said she replied but i really didnt recieve any. had to call her when i got home ( i was with my friends house becuase he was leaving for the province the next day) and she was already in the club. and well she got home at 4 am. she texted me the following day and i asked her if she had fun. she didnt reply so i texted her another msg. still no reply. called her up on her sun cellular and she said she didnt get any msgs.. no signal for globe at the fuente osmena area? i guess i was irritated that time that when we talked and the signal of Sun Cellular was bad, i put the fone down.

i know i trust her but how come i have a bad feeling inside? are her excuses true and it was just a series of unfortunate events that led me to believe that something happened? is this just me being insecure? how come i cant stop thinking something happened when i know she didnt do anything?

[dead_poetic19]

ey bro.. just wana ask something.. do you really know the gurl?! coz if you really know each other, you will know if they're telling the truth or not... doubt is such one big factor that leads couples to break up.. trust me.. ive been there..

hmmm.. you really are in deep s@#$(censored) dude..hehe.. not to ignore that your gurl likes that guy before, right?! and also i dont want to add this but, a misfortune of one can lead them both to closiness.. a honest and warm talk with your gurl can be a good strategy... but dont talk to her about the issue fronthand.... just make palikot2!

but i do believe that if 2 souls are rampantly in love, trust and faith are needed... need to trust your gurl also bro. and i know she will also feel that... eventhough im a newbie (often dumped ), this is just a "payong kaibigan"... its all up to your judgement what to do...

goodluck bro....fight for what you know is truly yours....! GOdspeed soldier :mrgreen:

[neomorgatory69]

Naa ka right dudz. Out of those messages that youve sent, di man lang siya maka reply? Tsk tsk tsk.

[chewbacca83]

thanks for the advice ninyo tanan. concerning sa kato iya ingon nga nireply cya sa ako msg, ang tinuod kay wala diay nakareply .. hehe we got to talk nya murag nakalimot cya.. naglagot bya ko niya pero we kinda resolved the issue nman. i know she didnt do anything wrong.. its frustrating lang nga she doesnt understand why i was mad at her. iyang rason man gud kay kung mulaag ko with friends ok raman daw niya nga usahay di ko kareply.. pero diba its diff when u know ur gf was with a guy whom she had a past ryt? makes u edgy if u dont hear from her from time to time.

now if only we can hear from a girls point of view...

[marcus2015]

yes, mkaduda imo gf TS..naa ka ryt to be mad at her...

[coolguyiam20]

hmmm...naa na gbhat lain oi..impossible walai cgnal gud tawn..
ang y cgnal ra kung mgcheck.in og motel..im xur wa jud na cgnal..
bro expect ,the unexpected nlng...

[vjay01]

yes u have the right to get mad. dapat i-clarify na nimo ngadto niya bro kay makaduda jud na.

[fern-pewee]

i think she tasted the western thing dude... shes not that trustworthy.. talk to her... let her admit then you decide if she told you something happened...

[onigz]

ako pa anah bro yawyawan ko nah ug maayo... uyab mo dn makig kuyog xa ug lain laki adto pa jud sa PUMP? dn 4 am na na uli?? aguuuyyyyyy sus mg regor ug maau akong utok anah bro... lage way joke...

[istoryamember]

insecure ra ka tingali bro. ayaw lang kaayo na huna hunaa