Love, a matter of Chance or Choice?

[ramnem]

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It is not "Destiny" that determines "Love" it is "Choice". Our so-called "Destiny" is a lie...

Relationships last long not because they're destined to last long because two brave people made a choice - to keep it, to fight for it, and to work for it.

Meanwhile, other relationships fail not because they're destined to fail. They failed because one of the two, or both, made the choice - to set each of the other free... [br]Posted on: March 28, 2008, 12:48:27 PM_________________________________________________S ometimes, we realize to change for the better just when the situation got worse...
We realize to finally correct our mistakes just when those mistakes have caused irreversible damage...
We finally decided to prove ourselves worthy just when the person whom you want to prove your worth has already decided that you're not worth it at all...


Most of the lessons learned when the test is over, that's how ironic life is... [br]Posted on: March 28, 2008, 12:54:44 PM_________________________________________________Y ou change for two reasons....

Either you learn enough that you want to...

Or you've been hurt enough that you have to... [br]Posted on: March 28, 2008, 12:57:40 PM_________________________________________________I ts difficult to turn your back to someone whom you really want to be with.

To let someone feel they're neglected, when in fact they're important.

To sjow someone that you don't mind, when in fact you care a lot.

To avoid someone, when in fact you want to take a stolen glance.

To treat someone as an ordinary being, when in fact they're really special.

To let someone realize that they're presence is naturally welcome, when in fact 8 creates extraordinary excitement.

To say things contrary to what you feel,

and...

To laugh when in fact you want to cry your heart out...

[dark_phoenix]

both...

[shinkei]

It is not "Destiny" that determines "Love" it is "Choice". Our so-called "Destiny" is a lie...

destiny is not a lie... it's true, kaso lang, we make our own destiny... so tabla ra gihapon na it's a choice... hehehe

[stitches n burns]

living is changing..

[mikogerald]

Nothing is permanent. everything is impermanent.
Change is the only reality.

[shinkei]

i've learned alot that's why...

[commonsense]

its both. .50% its a chance and 50% as a choice. .

[Ladyjane]

:8O: educate me beh pips!!!
' i finally found some1, some1 to share my life.....' meaning by choice?
: ' somethin's tellin me it might be you...' by chance?

>>i do think its a little of both... somehow you got to find someone to share life with who just feels right..

[szichri]

both, people are given a CHANCE to make a CHOICE...

[commonsense]

dghan ng ni agree. .