Privacy and Transparency in Relationships

[sierrafreeze]

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i think there is nothing wrong with friendster thingy.. and messaging.. depends hinuon on the type of messages that they exchange.. do not focus on small things.. look at yourself and examine if there is anything wrong with you or whether sobra ra ka ka huot. just my opinion gurl ha..

though the fact that he changed his password medyo makaduda but you know, ikaw nag suffer ana sa konsumisyon.. just let it be nalang.. you cannot always control what he does and the more you do it, the more na sya ma immune sa imo mga sulti.. so, just keep your cool, talk to him maturely about it. ask him why sya naa mga girls nag message, etc. if he tells you that it;s his bro, let it be. who knows if nagbinuang sya, basin online ekek rana and wala sila personally meet...

bottomline, dear, do not open his email nagsakit sakit lang ka nimo... what you do not know wont hurt you.. right gurl?

[zian]

yah, sak2 gyud ka. that's wat i'm doing ryt now. i learned a lot from ur msge. thanks.

[angelice]

if your gonna ask if he's hiding something.. the answer is yes..
for what reason? we dont know basta in my opinion maybe he needs his privacy back...

my advise is don't bother yourself so much about this and let the issue go.. instead show him that you can give him his freedom even he doesn't ask for it verbally.

[franz]

bottomline, dear, do not open his email nagsakit sakit lang ka nimo... what you do not know wont hurt you.. right gurl?

so what if... naa na diay to silay laing kuyog pirmi you know... laki gud! hehehe

[jonz]

thats a.... danger... you need to talk to him kung ngno inana cya..... bsn naa na cya net gf hehehe btaw try to invsetigate him thru due process hehehe... talk to him girl and kulita dyd cya pg au para mo sulti cya sa tinuod

[iLuVarcher`d`great]

hala oyy.. sos... kining problemaha nohh common jud ka ayo neh sa mag uyab.. ako pa nimo pasagda-e na.... mo gara ng imong patulan.... kahibaw naman cguro sya og unsay sakto og unsay deli.. gamay ra ka ayo ng butanga oyy ma o ra jud nay sinugdanan sa inyong away unya.. dayon mag bulag.. mo..

ako pa nmo u have to warn him... ingna sya kahibaw naka sa iyang mga hidden agenda og unsa pa na diha.. kong na-ay sya plano mangita og la-in.. may pa ikaw nalang mo open da-an.. basin mag mata lang kag buntag wa ka makahibaw nga na-ay nay lain imong uyab...

dats why we only have 1account sa friendster 2gether so as to avoid of fights of either my friendster account alone or his. ehhehehe... now, we never have such fights anymore. everythin's clear and msgs will be read by both of us. Not unless, he's into somethin else...then for sure, ud see a strange msg also. So, id say, u nid 2 clear everythin w/ ur bf and his account. Yeah, he's into somethin i guess. No offense but maybe, there's somethin u need to do to stop makin him lie to u. Try to ask him if is he tryin to imply than he needs someone else aside from havin u in his life?...

[shoeless_rebel]

it's down right creepy.

[gangrene]

i think there is nothing wrong with friendster thingy.. and messaging.. depends hinuon on the type of messages that they exchange.. do not focus on small things.. look at yourself and examine if there is anything wrong with you or whether sobra ra ka ka huot. just my opinion gurl ha..

Â* Â*--->> yep nothing's wrong with it if the other party knows about it... afterall, TRUST and HONESTY are supposed to be the key issues in any relationship right??

though the fact that he changed his password medyo makadudaÂ*

Â* Â* ---> exactly what i'm saying..

but you know, ikaw nag suffer ana sa konsumisyon.. just let it be nalang.. you cannot always control what he does and the more you do it, the more na sya ma immune sa imo mga sulti.. so, just keep your cool, talk to him maturely about it. ask him why sya naa mga girls nag message, etc. if he tells you that it;s his bro, let it be. who knows if nagbinuang sya, basin online ekek rana and wala sila personally meet...

Â* Â* ---> hmmm, i think i won't agree on the let it be nalang thing... kase, CURIOSITY is already there, it will continue to haunt you if you will just let it be.... but you're right, COMMUNICATION is the best solution.. but don't ask him literally about those girls, it will only irritate him; instead try telling him how much youÂ* love him, and that you are hurt because you are AWARE that those frendster thing exist!!"

bottomline, dear, do not open his email nagsakit sakit lang ka nimo... what you do not know wont hurt you.. right gurl?

Â* Â*--->> ok, i see your point...Â* but which is more painful, to know the TRUTH that your partner is having other flings? or the FACT that you loveone, whom you trusted with all your heart is lying to you.... di ba mas sakit kung makabalo ka nga nag-lie siya? kay mura ra man gud na wala ka bili para niya kay sayon sayonon ra man ka niya ug bakak..

[crinkle]

if that's what pleases him, it's fine with me. some things are better left unsaid and unknown to me. lisod na...

naa man gani'y taguon ang mga minyo na'g tag 50 years, unsa na ba kaha na'ng uyab pa, right? we all deserve our right to keep things to ourself. and besides, what he allows me to know or read would measure the trust and honesty between us.

... so far, i'm not having any problems.

[sassy_suzzy]

we share passwords sa bisa'g unsa nga site nga members mi... we even read each other messages sa fone usahay...

as long as you're honest, there won't be any problems... i don't check his fone or read his emails often even if i know the password... mas maayo man gud if you trust him... sending email messages to girls does not mean that he's doing something bad... maybe, he's just being friendly...