HELP Am I Doing the Right Thing?

[rl]

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Dumd ass guy, ma gaba-an na cya

[Divemaster]

i would like to know the story on the other side of the coin first, lisod man pod i-judge nya wala pa ta kahibaw sa side sa lalaki. daghan kaayo mga pangutana nga angay pa tubagon, like how long have you too been married? nganong wala man moy anak? have you consulted a doctor kun usa man gani sa inyo naay deperensya? how was your marriage life? that includes ***, romance and everything. honestly, we guys don't just dump our wife or gf's for someone else, its a process and a very long, painful and confusing process for us since we are commited already.

so hopefully you can enlighten us a little bit more....

[ajol]

is this legal marriage or Live-in?

[leo_trams]

ipa priso na imo bana.
kung wala na siyay gibati nimo...then ayaw pud siya ug suklii ug pagbati...

gather evidence/documents...get a lawyer then file a case.
get everything that he has...get even...or get even more...hehehe

[d_boss]

aww if u need someone to be with ur tagay count me in hehehe! pm me lang! bitaw unsa pod kaha ang side sa laki? unsa pod iya friendster account? pm his friendster para ato makita kung mas wafa bah sa imo ang gurl and ur friendster pod para maka compare ta hehehe

[irisiris]

soft, what you're going through really isn't easy. Although your husband's reason is pretty shallow, yet for him it may be a reason enough to leave. But your husband's not somebody worthy of respect. I mean, he's a guy who broke his own vow. What was he thinking when he made that vow? And he threatened to kill you if something goes wrong with his Mom just because you told her about him having an affair? Why should he do that? I mean it wasn't you who coerced him to have an affair. It was his own decision and doing You were just telling his mother. So, why should he cast the blame on you? Grabe pud. And is he in his right mind when he placed their picture in friendster? The guy could have leave you some face. I don't think it's right that one hurts somebody. What is worse is stripping off that person's pride and dignity.
Honestly, he didn't try to make things work between both of you. Because if he did, why would the other girl say that she kept on pushing your husband to work things with you? And about the other girl. She sure didn't try enough. There are lots of ways to avoid somebody. Some may say that it is so hard for a girl to avoid somebody she loves. True, I agree. But she could have put herself in your shoes. Can she still say the same thing?
It' s not right to judge or to comment on something when you haven't heard the entire thing (that means listening to your hubby's side). He has his own reasons why he fell out of love. But you know what, even if he found out that he no longer loves you, it doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect you either.
soft, I still wish you the best. And I hope that your husband will come to his right senses. But as of the moment, you've got to be strong and love yourself.

[hobie]

Cry it all out ate. Then try to move on But still, the option of suing him is not impossible because you have a right. You can also sue the girl I think covered na sa new family code?

[Velvett]

go on living your own life. there are so many things to do even without your husband--job, housework, pa beauty sa self, further studies, going out with family and friends, volunteer work, hobby clubs (like the book club here in istorya), taking care of a pet, adopting a less fortunate child....

[Minty]

why go through all that? Just let it go. The more ka mag revenge the more ra ka masakitan.

[lordvhick]

TO HELL WITH YOUR HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!UNSA PAGTAN AW NYA SA IYANG SARILI C CASSANOVA........ako pa nimo day pag enjoy kay wala na imong amo............dalaga ka na sab................sultian taka maka huna2x gihapon na cya ug magmahay n..............