Will you tell him/her you slept with someone else?

[angel_ish]

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will you tell your fiance you slept with someone else?

[LytSlpr]

he has the right to know. if he will ask, tell him the truth. in fact, it is a good thing that you tell him before you get married.

[angel_ish]

hehehe.. not really bout me... bout a friend... its hard to make dcsions like this.

[LytSlpr]

then tell your friend, concealing truths like this can possibly make her married life miserable.

[daslutopan]

no i wont, its my secret..

[LytSlpr]

no i wont, its my secret..

what if he will ask? and you thought that he could handle it, but he really can't. your married life would be miserable and the marriage started with a lie. do not assume that he loves you that much and he would just accept it.

before marriage, full disclosure gyud para way mahayay. remember that females are always at the losing end and that is the reality.

[daslutopan]

that is why i wont tell her, kay masakitan lang jud sya.. according to my boss bahala nag nakit-an kang nagpatung ayaw jud og angkon, kay sakit kaayo nasa bae.

[angel_ish]

pero kng ang bae ang nagka third party, unsa man buhaton nimo.. lets just say, imong gf nagka third party, she slept with a guy... would you rather have her tell you or mas gustohn na nimo na dili ka maka hibaw?

[angel_ish]

another question? proactive ba ang pag reveal or you will wait till he ask you?

[LytSlpr]

another question? proactive ba ang pag reveal or you will wait till he ask you?

depende na kay naa man uban, bisan kahibaw, di na lang gusto mangutana. in denial ba!

or you say it in the form of a question. mas maayo lagi gyud ng full disclosure para walang sisihan.