re: gaaway akong parents..(pirmi nalang)

[jntio]

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mka hilak mnsb ta ani oi. btw, just pray lng gyd ky bacn g tuyo na ni God fr some reason lyk to test ur fam kng unsa mo kalig.on

[Dorothea]

hahay.. wat to do? kalayason nkay ko..maytag plain ra nga away..magshinagitay, magdapatay pa gyud!!! hay!!

How old are you? If you're old enough and you earn enough to live on your own, do it. Remove yourself from a violent situation. If your parents have no sense to extricate themselves from a bad situation, then ikaw nalang magpa layo.

[ej___]

Better off than be in pain.

Sakit lang imo dunggan ug dughan.

If you have relatives who can lend a place to stay, go and let you parents realize.

[nissanss]

daghan factor nganong mag-away ang mag asawa:
1. Selos
2.Financial problem
3. pride
4.Thier passion is gone
5.problems with in laws etc

Una dapat mahibaw an nimo kung unsa hinungdan gyud sa cge nilag away.Then sakto na dapat istoryahon nimo ang isa human ang isa kung asa ka mas close.Kung kinsa ang mas dali masuko,try to advise him/her nga mag cool down para malikayan ang lalis.Dapat naa gyud mo give way sa bawat away nila.Then after that kung medyo bugnaw na ang ulo,thats the time nga mag istorya sila.children should not run away from their home just to escape problems.They should help find ways to settle their parents dispute.kung molakaw ka,pagbalik nimo mao lang na gyapon.Try talk to your mother unya explain nimo nga love pa sya sa imong papa galing di siya ganahn sa batasan nga mao ni...at the same time talk to your father also.goodluck

been there...

ang ako lang gyud ika advice ana kay do not solve the situation with another mistake (like being rebellious, etc.) reciprocate it with optimism and pray, pray, pray.

imo raman gud kaugalingon imong gidaot once you'll act irresponsibly, instead strive to be good and be a good model nalang to your parents and kung naa kay mga manghod pa think nga mas kailangan ka nila in those times. tell also your parents how you feel (sulti lang pod kanang time nga kalmado ang tanan)

be faithful nga malampasan ra na sa imo family. pray lang jud

God bless!

these two advices are the best.

ayaw anang layas kay cowardly act na & for selfish reasons lang. been there. ana pud ko ug kaagi. more so if you have younger siblings. pasagdi na lang na imo parents inig mag away pero be there also in the middle para to discourage/minimize physical contacts & talk to the side you are closer to afterwards. always make effort to mediate para dili gyud ka magmahay later on nga u didn't make any moves/effort to reconcile them. at least u did ur part real hard. don't solve the problem by creating another problem. kanang magbuhat kag dili maayo just to draw attention towards u. and if everything else fails pagconcentrate na lang sa imo eskwela para sa imong kaayuhan or future. don't become a by product of a broken family. be positive & think responsibly. do good. be a good model to your siblings. inig abot sa panahon, imo bro/sis magpasalamat nimo for what u did & showing them the way. that happened to me & it didn't really occur to me way back then & i didn't imagine that it had such big impact to them. now, puro mi maayo sa amo mga igsoon & closer.
You're doing the right thing by coming here & seeking advices. Just continue to do good. Pray, pray, pray. God bless you, your siblings, & your parents. I hope everything will turn out ok for you.

[Carla03]

if your parents are fighting then help them fix it. dinha ra na sila makamata if ang children mismo ang mobadlong nila. if same lang gihapon then pasagdi nalang. ive been to your situation before. now, my parents are annulled. if you can manage, find a place on your own. its not healthy living in an environment like that. its really depressing seeing your parents fight.

[daslutopan]

ako mga ginikanan sigi lang og away hangtud karun 60+ na sila mao lang japon. tingala lang ko nganu abot mig 8 ka managsuon.

[ej___]

Makatawa man ta ana bro. Obvious kaayo ang tubag ana kung nganong nahimo mong walo.

[daslutopan]

mao bah bro. aheheeee

[ej___]

hehehe

[Tamblot]

ha ha ha! naa man ang exciting part human sa away. ha ha ha! mao na nindot videohan.

Anyways, when I was still a kid, i really feel bad seeing my parents quarrel. Hilak lang ko pirmi sa ako room. I was still in grade school that time. Let's say life at home is boring if wala away.

Later when I already had a relationship of my own, I realized that those quarrels were just normal. Each one of us have differences. It's how we settle those differences with our partners.

I think you are already old enough to handle the situation. Parents would just be cautious and hide if possible their quarrels from young kids.