how to handle insecure GF/BF?

[r0mm3L]

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this topic is general

[chad_tukes]

make her feel loved.. reassurance is the key.

[shaxyra]

..assurance and constantly remind her that you love her

[yokam]

Keep them busy or give them something or let them do something to boost up their self-esteem. Insecurity (in a relationship) usually results when one feels that he/she is lesser than his/her partner or one gets too attached to his/her partner.

Get a life!!

[khymm]

kapoy au nang insecure oi.. mura nuon nag-doubt sila sa imong love..

[zyLe]

i had a bf who's very insecure.. at first I tried to let him feel good about himself but still mao ghapon.. how to deal with it? dont bother, kapoy2x lang..maypa'g byaan

[diem]

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People are only human. We have our flaws and I think one of the reasons why we make or have relationships is to be with people who can accept our flaws when we ourselves sometimes can't. As with our best qualities, our worst qualities are also aspects of our individual identities.

I feel that as long as these insecurities do not dampen or hurt the interactions of a relationship, I do not bother changing the person I am with. If it isn't irritating or depressing and the person's functioning alright as a human being, why go the trouble of changing the person?

And zyLe is right when she implied that its best to leave people alone because only they themselves can overcome their fears and insecurities. True we can support them but we can only do so much. When it comes to these matters of selfdom and personal growth, people can only help themselves.