My GF for 4 years broke up with me. I want her back while it's still early.

[Bonito4U]

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Too early to say na "she's the one." .. pero ang pangutana "Are you the one?" para niya?...

[quirkychinita]

dont make it hard for both of you.

And dont let it get to a point na mag"friends" ramo until makakita na syag bag-o.... then if magselos ka tubagon dayun kag "THERE WAS NEVER AN US!"

if gibuwagan ka, aw, move on, pero follow the 3 month rule....

pero anyway, ONLY YOU KNOW YOURSELF AND ONLY YOU CAN SOLVE THE PROBLEM....

so there.

[<SMILE>]

We we're still chatting yesterday until my best friend told me that if we're broken up we shouldn't talk a lot anymore because my ex and I agreed to be friends but friends don't talk every second of the day. So right now we're not communicating anymore.
I'll just wait for like a week or so to contact her again. Kay sakto gyud ka bai, di gyud mubo ang 4 years. And katong 4 ka tuig nga nagkuyog mi grabe ka nindot sa feeling.

It seems that she only wanted some changes from your side and I could sense that no feelings are lost, look back and reflect what she always ask you to do or the changes she wanted from you and you can start showing her not saying that you are already complying.

[slakker]

set her free ts, she/you deserves better...

[silent-kill]

IMO, its useless to "fight" for it if your the only one that's interested.

I bet there is someone new in the background waiting, maybe she got bored with your relationship for what ever reason... and that's a sign of immaturity.

she kissed/cuddled with you because she feels guilty, that's all there is to it.

You shouldn't have asked for an explanation, cause she's just gonna invent something up to ease the guilt, my advise is just move on silently, and take it as an experience.

[P-Chan]

basin drama2x ra ni niya... kung kanta pa ni even lovers need a holiday far away from each other.. ako advice 4 years man gud mo.. so more or less naa gud ka idea unsa iya batasan and what.. bawsi pud ipa libog2x siya..

[RayGunz]

Gusto ng karamihan yan pag may libog libog na

[Battle-Born/Black-Briar]

UPDATE: She broke up with me because she had a personal problem and she doesn't want me to worry about her by dragging me down into it.
She has a history of suicidal tendencies. Maybe it could be it?
For the past 2 days she told me she still loves me, and she's thinking of crawling back to me but because of the problem she's not gonna do it.
Happy ko nga sad. Ambot bitaw.

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

kuyawa pud anang imong uyab TS oi, naay history for suicidal? unsa na nga problema, pamilya? ayaw nalang gukod anang tawo nga kusog modagan......graduate usa mong duha.....

[Kristiano]

@Battle-Born/Black-Briar hmmm.. mirror theory...? people do what others do.. lisod ning gikan sa broken family... sort of, mag suonsuon...
college, anything can happen... if she's smart or bright, naa tay giingon na bogo sa gugma ang uban...

Ani nlng, do you have goals/plans in life when you're a couple na? then Vows ninyo inig minyo? If she can't view or foresee that, then she's not the one... to marry her or getting married is different from puppy love...

Bro, you're still in 20s... dghan pa kang mamet inig 30s... basin makakanta ka ug "bakit ngayon ka lng dumating sa buhay ko?" or "sana dalawa ang puso ko" hehhe..

musta na brad? unsay balita niya?