Love, a matter of Chance or Choice?

[Serene]

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YES. If a guy ask you out on a date, you decide if you go. If the guy calls or text, you decide if you wanna reply. If he will court you, you decide if you want to be his gf. Now when he cheats on you, you decide if you will forgive him. Bisan pa unsa iyang mga sa, either big or small, you decide if you will forgive. The same ra sad niya. Love is a choice.

[andch81]

for me it is indeed a choice now.. coz if u have chosen not to love this certain person u can actually do that but the feeling itself is not a choice..its a matter of stages bout what we ar tlaking bout here...

[mata_hari]

you could choose who you love but you could never force them to fall in love with you.

when you found that person that tingles your spine and someone whom you could picture your life and future with. hold on to the person and love him/her perfectly.

you need not wait for your soulmate to come, you might as well treat the person you are with as the ultimate ONE, the neo anderson of your life.

[chronicle876]

my bf now is been my crush since gr6,shs-j cya & stc ko..he sed he noticed me wen we we're in 1st yr but we never really introduced..naa cya mga gf sa amo skul,naa sad ko mga bf sa elang skul..but in the end when i got to 2nd year college nagka kami..i really had a big huge crush on him since he's so cute & my type..&now i still cant even believe that i my long tym crush was also interested in me..if we both only knew then,dugay nata mi..but at least now nag dugay mi & we're so inlove as ever..14months & going strong..hehe

[ichor_82283]

i have learned juz now that love doesn't juz happen by chance, u make it happen.

correct!

[heisenberg69]

may tama ka

[ichor_82283]

u choose man gyud kinsay higugmaon!

[christa]

roads intersect.. chances arise.. in the end.. love remains as a choice..

[ichor_82283]

well said.

if by chance pa ang love, you wouldn't end up together

[shaxyra]

chance.. and it's your choice to grab that chance