Originally Posted by
nathanjohn
hahahah i love your ideals but believe me it doesnt work out as much as we all hope it would
uyab mi for 10 years then we decided to marry, not buntis but it was the next step
i got screwed after a few years
i prefer divorce to annulment, i find annulment too unfair to the children
annulment says marriage never existed because of "conditions" - so children are what? born out of wedlock?
divorce it says marriage ended at a certain point, at least it recognizes that it happened and just stopped
We also differ in that area...I don't believe in long relationships. I know that it takes a life time to know a person. When I met my ex-girlfriend, I just know that she's the one.
A long and lasting relationship is not easy, I know that for sure. You need to work on it. But it takes two to tango. Again, open communication is the key to a successful marriage.
My personal opinion.