no prob! just an istoryan concerned.. aiyt!
well anyway sir esboss... it takes a lot of balls na ni angkon siya ana sa yahang past....
People change and definitely, you are not perfect either. I think people deserve to be given chances.
correct.....you should take the risk to really know if she really changed or has the willingness to change....you wouldn't know unless you'll try....but don't give your all.
gamblers have compulsive mechanisms, but maybe the girl you mentioned did not do it on compulsion, so that's a different story..It could have been that she gave it all for a genuine feeling kay my take is that if its because of compulsion then she could have donethem all at the same timeOriginally Posted by esboss
its a state of mind, she could think the same way of you too but she probably thinks otherwise thats why that kind of thought may not bother her. Sometimes, we so hate attributes in others which are actually projections of our own selves that we refuse to acceptOriginally Posted by esboss
this way of thinking is actually a double standard, gender-biased norms against women.Originally Posted by esboss
and how can she be assured as well, what hapened in your past wont happen again? you see, you are too concerned about her past and you just dismiss your own past. Dont you think that is unfair?good point why not worry about her future. well i believe that what you are now is because of your past one or the other. plus i have this lingering thought inside me...that if she can afford to do it before, there's no reason why she can't do it again.
actually all of the inputs here..makes a lot of sense. btw, this might be a little off topic. however, is having an affair to a priest common practice now adays? and ladies, how comfortable are you with that kind of relationship?
priests are humans too with basically human emotions, while they have an oath of celibacy, it is not uncommon that many may give in to their carnal desires. its a difficult and sensitive topic on morality, ethics, but for priests to fall in love with a woman, that to me is normal. My take is that, if it is against a vow they took, then make a choice to stay on or get out of it para wlay sabitOriginally Posted by esboss
but what happened was, he didnt get out..as a matter of fact till now he is still a priest. and during the course of their relationship...he was also a practising priest.
I am no moral authority to comment on that, but yes cant blame those who think its not right. But as Ive said, tawo ra sad na sila who are capable of feeling. lahi ra biya usahay and magsangka ang tugon sa gugma ug ang tugon sa pangutok(like imo gibarugan)Originally Posted by esboss
dude... they took a vow... not any human but to the CREATOR... [br]Posted on: October 03, 2007, 10:08:34 AM_________________________________________________t hadzonline - no offense man, but thought your an organizational consultantOriginally Posted by thadzonline
are you saying in an organization such as religious it's ok to just get in nd f**k up dn get out??...
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