Why lovers can never be friends?

[vladmire]

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yep it really depends on how u ended your relationship with that person and the reason why you broke up.

Not all lovers can be friends after breakup jud......

main reason gyud ni xa, as for me. based on my experience.

[n A n O N]

wen lovers became friends, duha ra reason ana.. either theyr still inlove and they never were inlove at all...
do u think so

[joshbonz]

wen lovers became friends, duha ra reason ana.. either theyr still inlove and they never were inlove at all...
do u think so

i don't think so IMO.. becoming friends (should you both ever decided it to be) only comes after if you both accept the reality that it's finally over na jud. No more pain and remorse that you initially feel after the breakup.. Acceptance should first be there.

And the reasons that they are still in love is irrelevant (on my opinion lang ha) because you both decided to move on separated from each other na man. So the word "STILL IN LOVE" is really not the word to say it.. "Used to love" would be more appropriate tingali. Used to love and the feeling that you've shared some wonderful moments w/ that person in the past is something that nobody can ever try to forget in his or her lifetime..

Never in love is also irrelevant, because that would mean that both of you are still in the denial state and hasn't move on still w/ his/her life. like i've said I think in all major breakups.. the painful slowly process of recovering from the pieces would be to gradually accept that it's finally over and from thereon you have to pick yourself up and just continue to function and work day by day w/out any regret thereafter and to face every new day full of optimisms and promises that next time you fall in love, it would be much much better than the previous one you had.

I have come to that reality now..

[andch81]

they can nvr have the best of both worlds

[stabwounds]

love thy wil be done...

[vaughn]

maybe in the future when you have your own families na that time..........neutral na guro ang feelings ninyo

[joshbonz]

TIME heals all wounds not the scars...

[vaughn]

TIME heals all wounds not the scars...

Acceptance is the key bro and being positive.....though the scars remain if you learn to accept that d jud kamo.........through time, you'll forget the reason behind that scar.

[joshbonz]

Acceptance is the key bro and being positive.....though the scars remain if you learn to accept that d jud kamo.........through time, you'll forget the reason behind that scar.

i guess so bro.. leaving the scars and yesterdays behind and focussing on now and tomorrow would be only way to gradually move on..

thanks..

[vaughn]

no problem..... hope maka move on namo....

OT: im a sistah josh hehe