Should Couples Live Together before Marriage?

[vaughn]

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Both have advantages and disadvantages....

By living together before getting married
- you'll both know how compatible you are with each other...
- it's risky coz does "testing the relationship" really ensure a better marriage?
but at least if things won't work out the way you expect it to be...
- you can still back out and won't suffer all your life.

Getting married before living together
- some are disappointed sa behavior sa ila partners (mao lng pagkadiscover na ning ana diay xa)
- not all ends happily coz their love with each other didn't last...so magbuwag
- both couple suffer sa break up plus the children



Bottom line...

Either way d jud 100% sure na you'll have a better marriage in the future...That only depends jud sa couple, their experience, and the love that is between them. If they are meant to be together, they will stay together.
If they love each other that much, they won't let it be destroyed....mapa-livein man or married na jud.

[d`monyita]

I want the blessings of God. Marriage first.

[harryperales]

mao ni gitawag nga sukod usa before paliton, kay dli palang masigo na lisod na i-uli....

btaw seriously, i think ok ra na cya its not because im a man and i just love to make out with the woman free of any obligation. its way beyond S*X its about getting to know and seeing how the other would react when they are already in the real situation. Girls just imagine nga nag live-in palang mo gikulata namo sa guy, would you want to marry that kind of person in the end. I think not. Im also a pro-woman because i have my sisters and i dont want seeing them end up marrying some bastard who would hit her just about anytime he feels like punching my sister. So its really being practical nowadays, id rather see my sister living with my mother than seeing her with blackeyes caused by punches by some lame bastard

[borgy1981]

^^ yah right bro!

[pam]

yes

[aleyson]

mao ni gitawag nga sukod usa before paliton, kay dli palang masigo na lisod na i-uli....

btaw seriously, i think ok ra na cya its not because im a man and i just love to make out with the woman free of any obligation. its way beyond S*X its about getting to know and seeing how the other would react when they are already in the real situation. Girls just imagine nga nag live-in palang mo gikulata namo sa guy, would you want to marry that kind of person in the end. I think not. Im also a pro-woman because i have my sisters and i dont want seeing them end up marrying some bastard who would hit her just about anytime he feels like punching my sister. So its really being practical nowadays, id rather see my sister living with my mother than seeing her with blackeyes caused by punches by some lame bastard

good point there bro...
but i guess some people these days are quite traditional. i do agree that at some point the person you are in a relationship with may not be the person you have known for years when you start living together and then you might regret getting married...so yeah living together may be a testing ground.
maybe if the couple would agree to live together a couple months before marriage i think that would be ok.
but if there is no plan to get married yet and they just want to live together then in the long run someone will get hurt emotionally...

[mylene07]

mao ni gitawag nga sukod usa before paliton, kay dli palang masigo na lisod na i-uli....

btaw seriously, i think ok ra na cya its not because im a man and i just love to make out with the woman free of any obligation. its way beyond S*X its about getting to know and seeing how the other would react when they are already in the real situation. Girls just imagine nga nag live-in palang mo gikulata namo sa guy, would you want to marry that kind of person in the end. I think not. Im also a pro-woman because i have my sisters and i dont want seeing them end up marrying some bastard who would hit her just about anytime he feels like punching my sister. So its really being practical nowadays, id rather see my sister living with my mother than seeing her with blackeyes caused by punches by some lame bastard

amen to this

[flor2109]

dili gyud ko agree ana ky wla na may chalenge..wa la nmay trilling hehe

[witty_wacky]

ok ra pud cya para sad makabalo na ka daan sa imng sudlan ba if ever mag plan namu og marriage. i mean, trial and error pa na ang live-in coz if d ka ganahan naa pa ka chance mo let go and d ka magkaproblema kung magkina-unsa kay wala man mo papers gipirmahan...

[chemerx]

ok ra ko sa live in sa....