Privacy and Transparency in Relationships

[esprugodoys]

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guys, what is your opinion about transaprency in relationship? and up to what extent would that be?
lets say for example, kanang manghiling ug celfon, s wallet, or anything n personal stuff s ilang mga bf/gf, bana/asawa.
let us hear from you guys on what is your point of view in this topic. :mrgreen:

[mrs_sipi_mr_yoso]

although you are in a relationship you have to keep a certain degree of privacy..

there are somethings na better if wa ko or wa siya kahibalo..

not necessarily about cheating and all those stuff,

but other personal stuff na maglisud jud ka ug share sa uban..

[shaxyra]

maglibog ko sahay silpon ta'y awayan sa manag-uyab.. makasapot pd na in case pabasahon nya naa'y makasave number sa ex or unsa away dayon.. aw based sa akong mga higala nuon na.. wa man ko'y problema anang privay2 basta lang gd d lang magbinuang.. ahahahaha

[pinkavaya]

agree ko sa uban nga pwidi man pud mag read og txt msgs sa cellphone sa imong uyab.. kana if manang-hed pud... DAPAT lang jud nga mo Ask og Permission. likewise, siya dapat pud mo ask permission pud from me if gusto niya mo tan-aw..
dinha na tingali ka kuyawan if maski mo ask na ka og permission, mo dili pa jud siya..kana! kuyaw

[andch81]

one thing is for sure... wther he lets u read his mesages or not... if he wants to cheat he will cheat... ul think that evrythng is so ok already and that u trust him bec u see what his doing and all... but all of a sudded you just found out.. that even in the sneakiest way posible..if they can just cheat for a minute they will surely grab it... waaah

[xxSTARLIGHT]

HE is DEFINITELY hiding something if that's the case..
case clOsed! +_+

[froi]

naa jd nuon uban na dli gusto basahun ila tx msgs kai privacy lagi kuno.

[ester]

it's ok. A person is entitled to privacy even as couples. Is the gf having trust issues for no reason?
Why would you want to read someone else's messages? it's paranoia. This is just my opinion.I'm a woman and I don't like my partner reading my messages ky feel nko walay salig. Before you commit yourself to be with someone make sure pud nga makasalig ka.

[femchien]

I noticed , when my husband doesn't want me to read his inbox , he's hiding something or he doesn't want me to read something that could make me mad or upset ..

pero kung mga message ra sa iyang relatives or barkada , ipabasa niya ..

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HE is DEFINITELY hiding something if that's the case..
case clOsed! +_+

yup agree jud ko .. haha !

[inyourface]

naa jud bitaw nay gitag0an basta di patan-aw sa phone

one time akong nabiyaan kadali sa kwarto akong backup phone then nag expect jud ko nga lowbat najud to.. nibalik ko mga 15 minutes, susss si kumander mura nama'g police investigator.. gi-ahak nalimtan nakog erase tanan messages sa silpon .. LUTAS wa ko patapara'g tulog isa ka semana! /sob

Lesson: Dalha jud permi ang silpon ug dili ibilin bisa'g lima lng ka minuto. Kung mabilin man gani cguradoha drain ang battery.

HAHA