GF vs Mom: which should the guy choose and follow?

[supersonic]

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My male friend is in a terrible situation right now.

I'll keep this short as much as I can.

There is an issue brewing between his gf and his mom. Let's just say it's been going on for months and the guy and her gf are immature, and his mom is on the good side and makes the right decisions.

The guy lives with his mom. He has no job, he does nothing but go to the gym and use his computer at home. The guy is about to leave to work abroad (Korea or Singapore, not sure). Her mom will pay for his expenses in the short-term (placement fee, etc.).

The girl is immature and talks "behind his mom's and relatives' back" in Facebook. In short, she is disrespectful to the guy's mom and relatives. The girl is sort of a gold digger, because she always asked for a breakup with the guy whenever he has no income (from sideline business). The guy has no job or income for many months now.

The mom is terribly stressed at the situation, almost getting sick/high-blood because of the girl whom terribly irritates the mom.

Guy is immature and have suicidal tendencies. He once created a suicide note after breaking up with 1 of his ex-gf (previous relationship). The current situation is like a repeat of his previous relationship. (Mom hates both girls) he is bound to leave for abroad soon.

Question, should the guy break up with the girl? I think it's a no-brainer that the guy should break up with her, but the problem is the guy is blindly in love with her (and he doesn't want to break up with her), to the point that the guy has asked his mom and relatives to text the girl in order to "make amends" of some sort. How can the guy break up with the girl? Any suggestions?

[supersonic]

Up!

Any advice? Problem's too complicated?

[femchien]

break up with her .. you already said that the girl is gold digger , immature and talked behind his mom's back .. so there's a lot of reason to break up with her ..

[izecream]

kung uyab pa gani nya nag pakita na ug bati nga attitude ang girl,,,need na jd na ug lesson ang girl,,break up jd.

[femchien]

is that the kind of girl that he wants to marry ? he needs to wake up to the reality ..

[H.Wolowitz]

ang imu ra jd mabuhat ts is to make sure dili mag-suicide imu male friend kung mag-buwag sila sa babaye

[four23]

leave the girl. ang gf makit-an rana, pero ang mama dili gyud mailisan, usa ra gyud na.
let him find a good girl who will respect and love her mom.. most especially, will love him
through the good and bad times.

[H.Wolowitz]

leave the girl. ang gf makit-an rana, pero ang mama dili gyud mailisan, usa ra gyud na.
let him find a good girl who will respect and love her mom.. most especially, will love him
through the good and bad times.

hehe ang problema mn gd kay dili si ts ang guy sa story!

[quackneat]

break up. best solution

[luff101]

As what you said TS, the guy is blinded by his love so mag lisud jud na ug buhi ang lalake sa girl. Paabota na lng imong friend nga maka larga basin pa d i maka amgo na siya ngadto.. hehehe