NB: this is not about me and my wife @four23, i just copied it from a column in a local paper. I am interested to get a glimpse on how istoryans think about this real life situation.
the article is printed here http://lifestyle.inquirer.net/171013/clueless-gf-cant-take-a-hint
dear @minty_meh,
I am a 34-year-old physician with a 32-year-old girlfriend of seven years who is also a physician.
We have a tumultuous relationship. I usually initiate our breakups because of her unabated jealousy, paranoia, possessiveness and controlling ways.
She gets crazy over forwarded texts from females I met way before her.
She checks my Facebook account and interrogates me about girls innocently photographed beside me.
I can tell you more nightmare stories but that’s not my main problem.
I don’t love her anymore. When we reconciled for the nth time, I just knew it was over. Finished. It has become a one-way relationship.
Despite her promises, she would change for a short time but inevitably go back to her controlling ways.
And now, she is dropping hints of marriage!
People around us think it is long overdue, but my trusted friends know differently.
They say I am being unfair because I am leading her on instead of making a clean break.
I feel trapped in a nightmare. Wanting to break free, I act like a real jerk with my short temper, I deliberately refuse to answer her calls and texts, miss important dates and birthdays, find excuses not to visit her in their house.
I know she knows I have already checked out of this relationship but she won’t quit on me.
The usual things I found endearing and cute about her are now just irritating.
I don’t think about her anymore, unless she calls or sends a text.
When I try to bait her into a fight, she keeps quiet or just says goodbye and hangs up. The next day she acts like nothing happened.
There’s more—we haven’t had s3x for 15 months because I don’t want her to feel “used.” Isn’t that red flag enough?
She stubbornly clings to a happy-ever-after for us.
There’s not even a third party involved. I’ve remained faithful despite of everything, and that truly breaks my heart. How do I make her understand and accept that this is the end of the line for us?
Last edited by Passport; 09-07-2014 at 12:21 PM.
do having *** on first date makes you a little less of a woman.. and it would not lead into more deeper relationship with a guy if fall into bed with him on your first date?
unsay buhaton if duha imong naibgan..but wala jud ka nila pansina..![]()
One isa ug dli many o daghan ko pwabs bowt sa love..only mao rani... na wa pajuy nidawat sa akong love 22 girls bisan usa way naluoy.....swakk!
Last edited by femchien; 09-16-2014 at 04:40 PM.
akong probs lage...kay i don't know unsaon naho para magkauyab me ne @femchien..help mehh.swakk!
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