Originally Posted by
Ms.Beau
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many of us don't take the time to imagine how our life would be in old age. i mean, when we are in our 70's, 80's, or 90's...when we are way way far from how mobile, alert, and mentally sharp as we are now.
perhaps it's the fear of it that we don't want to even think about it. but whether we like it or not, fear it or not, we are going in that direction.
so let me imagine mine.
when i'm old (like 70 years old) i want to be living in my own condo in a first-class retirement community. that is whether i have (or still have) a husband or not, whether i have grown kids or not. i just want to have my own place where i will be taken care of excellently and enjoy this phase of my life with fellow oldies. i'll make sure i'd have my regular manicure, pedicure, perm, facial, foot spa, massage, etc. I will enjoy my day playing board games with my buddies. will participate in group swimming, dancing, tai-chi, gardening, etc. If i am not so mobile and strong i'll have my assistant to help me in activities of daily living.
those are the dailies. my other activities would include being consulted on matters of national interest (ehem...let me just enjoy this part, ok?). ya, i mean political and business leaders paying me visits or me being invited to meetings, fora, sessions...stuff like that.
and perhaps writing books, yes. my autobiography should have been a national bestseller by then. i'd be writing on economics, business, relationships, single living (especially if i had chosen to be single, as in never married).
my family and relatives can always visit me in my plush condominium and they would always envy my lifestyle hehe. if there are grandkids then they'd always look forward to visiting me, for what kid wouldn't drool over the sweets in my fridge? not to mention that lola is so nice to hang around, of course. my own grown kids (again, if i had them) look up to me. they regard me with deep respect and admiration (whooaaa serious na ni!).
hala ka nindot ani i imagine oi. unsaon man ni pag attain? should be part of our overall life strategy sa kay just imagine the opposite di ba magkurog jud ta sa kahadlok...waaaaaa kahadlok matigulang nga pobre, pinasagdan (whether you have children or not), masakiton, walay bili...waaaa THAt i don't like to imagine.
happy new year to us all...may this and the coming years be our best years yet. may our old-age years be the bestest!