My Sweetheart is a *****

[anniepetilla]

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girls:
obviously, he's not that smart. just a regular joe who has an average IQ. in short, you are smarter than he is.
when you go out with your crowd, maobvious gyud ang disparity.
he cant relate with what you and your friends talk about, or he has nothing useful to say.
so do u pretend that you're dumber than you are just so he wont feel hurt or insecure, kai sa intelligence raman siya nagkulang, sa male ego daghan pa jud.

vice versa for guys.
views ninyo..

[mitch_a888]

before you accepted him as ur sweetheart, u knew well na guro for what he is. now u'r into it na, jaz accept his defficiencies & weaknesses coz it's where he's gaining his strength coz you fully accepted his whole being.

[nunobone]

>he cant relate with what you and your friends talk about

hmmmm... i dunno how you handle that puro you must love him so much siguro..

[anniepetilla]

wala pa nahinabo ninyo people, kanang u would talk about things nga dili man mo interested...or magpaka-dumb pud ka, not really dumb, just you know, stoop to his level ba so that maachieve niyo harmony...so he wont feel insecure...

[mitch_a888]

don't be hypocrite jaz to save his insecurity. it's a two-way process jed na cya. later on mo-adjust ra na cya nimo. express oi if the topic sounds too eccentric. you're not in your natural self already if you always stoop to his level..

[anniepetilla]

bitaw lagi...but sometimes you get this feeling na you have to please him just to keep him...even if it means letting him think nga sya ra japun ang labaw ninyong duha

[mitch_a888]

no way. ka unfair pod gud..u should do the opposite..kaw dapat pa impress so that he'll be inspired to be like you.. been there done that & very effective..

[anniepetilla]

hah. kai mbiyaan gud sya kaayo. no contest. hands down gyud. hehehe

[mitch_a888]

you'll be the one who will always suffer while he will always assume that everything's ok with you. i swear, maghuot imo dughan ana..

[akokini_john]

depende sad cguro kung unsay gisultian sa imong mga friends, kung dli cya maka join sa conversation, basin dli cya maayo ana nga field or wala cya know how, mas maayo nalang na kaysa magpa karon ingnon ka nga kabalo nya wala diay.

f u try luv d person, u can axept for what he/she is, pero 1 thing nga ganahan sa mga girlz kay smart nga pagkataw, bisan dli intelligent ok ra, basta smart lang.