LOVE PROBLEMS ( post em all here ) READ FIRST POST...

[pa0pa0]

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love is love...

[bokiratx]

strangely... she was a loyal kind nga partner... almost everyday kita, txt to death, ihatud at times sa wrk, kuhaun pa jud... cge lang undertime sa wrk.. n focus jud sa relationship... mau na nga in deep grief jud cia kay dugay na bya pud cla (4yrs). Even ako maka ingun ko nga suerte cia nga babae to be treated that way... it turns out this way man diay ghapon, NO guarantees jud cia basta relationships. It reached my mind nga mau diay some grls wud go for same *** relationship coz of the attention nga ihatag sa ila partner pero when this happen naka ingun jud ko nga WA JUD GHAPON diay... if its meant to end, regardless sa tanan effort nga g invest, ma end jud cia.

its not a guarantee jud...bahala na unsa pamo kadugaya magbuwag gihapon nah sila kay we all know nah its a big gamble jud basta love ang istoryaan, and sadly, sa imong fried, dili nice ang result sas iyang pag-gamble, so mao nah we never know wat will happen jud basta love

[bokiratx]

TIME will heal all the wounds lang ghapon ... pasalamat nlang ta n TIME ani...

TIME is a good healer....TRUE pero TIME is a lame beautician

[RyoZen]

strangely... she was a loyal kind nga partner... almost everyday kita, txt to death, ihatud at times sa wrk, kuhaun pa jud... cge lang undertime sa wrk.. n focus jud sa relationship... mau na nga in deep grief jud cia kay dugay na bya pud cla (4yrs). Even ako maka ingun ko nga suerte cia nga babae to be treated that way... it turns out this way man diay ghapon, NO guarantees jud cia basta relationships. It reached my mind nga mau diay some grls wud go for same *** relationship coz of the attention nga ihatag sa ila partner pero when this happen naka ingun jud ko nga WA JUD GHAPON diay... if its meant to end, regardless sa tanan effort nga g invest, ma end jud cia.

every effort is worth it as long as both of them made that effort... hindi pwede yung isa lang. if one falls out of love then no matter how much effort the other will give to save the relationship then it will be pointless 'coz the other isn't responding anymore..

[diem]

I have a friend nga g betrayed sa iyang uyab ... Shes been struggling too much but trying to hide it... its a same *** relationship (G2G) Very loyal ako friend during the time sa relationship and was thinking OK tanan too bad, just in a glimpse nka uyab man ug lain. Any COMMENT, word of Advice, violent reaction mga ISTORYANS?

I been trying my best to comfort sa ako friend and Its not working.,.. basin naa mas experienced dha nga maka hatag ug idea nako to help a friend....

[color=navy]
@cuteness, whether its heterosexual or same-***~ it doesn't matter... relationships are made of people and when it comes to people one can only trust them to be people. We can all hope for the best of each other but could we expect the best...? True experience (and master monrose can confirm) says no, not really.

All's fair in Love and War~ Like War, Love has its casualties~ Like War, a lot of unexpected things can happen during a relationship. There are gains as well as losses, wins or wounds, and victors as well as victims.

Your friend is hurt and she has every right to be, but she can heal herself. All you can do as a friend is help her heal herself by affirming her positively. What happened was as you say, no clear fault of hers, it's just that her 'partner' did not love her the same way. That's how relationships are, that's how people are and that's how life is.

Help your friend move on by focusing her time and energies to living with today, looking forward to tomorrow rather than remembering and regretting the past. Distract her with activities that can make her laugh and smile, show her how much you value her presence in your life, help her reconnect with family and friends who value her.

In short, wounds caused by love can be healed with love. Show your friend that she is valued and loved. Encourage her positively to live pass this, and that there is always hope as one lives on.

Wishing both of you the best in Life and in Love~! :mrgreen:

[cuteness]

[color=navy]
@cuteness, whether its heterosexual or same-***~ it doesn't matter... relationships are made of people and when it comes to people one can only trust them to be people. We can all hope for the best of each other but could we expect the best...? True experience (and master monrose can confirm) says no, not really.

All's fair in Love and War~ Like War, Love has its casualties~ Like War, a lot of unexpected things can happen during a relationship. There are gains as well as losses, wins or wounds, and victors as well as victims.

Your friend is hurt and she has every right to be, but she can heal herself. All you can do as a friend is help her heal herself by affirming her positively. What happened was as you say, no clear fault of hers, it's just that her 'partner' did not love her the same way. That's how relationships are, that's how people are and that's how life is.

Help your friend move on by focusing her time and energies to living with today, looking forward to tomorrow rather than remembering and regretting the past. Distract her with activities that can make her laugh and smile, show her how much you value her presence in your life, help her reconnect with family and friends who value her.

In short, wounds caused by love can be healed with love. Show your friend that she is valued and loved. Encourage her positively to live pass this, and that there is always hope as one lives on.

Wishing both of you the best in Life and in Love~! :mrgreen:

wow ... thank U so much...

[cute6423]

wat if ang imo luv1 taas na au cyag position sa iya work, then feel nimo wla n cyay tym para nimo...bsag makig kita nlang every tym mo anhi cya sa city...is the relationship still worth keeping?

[cuteness]

wat if ang imo luv1 taas na au cyag position sa iya work, then feel nimo wla n cyay tym para nimo...bsag makig kita nlang every tym mo anhi cya sa city...is the relationship still worth keeping?

Im no doctor love noh pero for me, Its best nga mg talk mo nya find it n you heart kung happy pa ba ka the love is still der. B true to urself and Being busy is no excuse, maski a minute of your 24hrs, a txt, a single wrd, just to prove nga love nimo ang tao, mabuhat ra n oi... I hope i make sense.

[diem]

[color=navy]@cute6423, no one can know what is best for you except yourself. Only you know what will make you happy and meaningful but its best to have all the information before one should make a decision.

Have you talked about your concerns with your partner? Have you expressed with your partner your evaluation of your relationship? If you haven't, I humbly suggest you do so because depending on your partner's answers and actions, you can readily consider if the relationship is worth keeping, giving it another chance or letting it go.

Wishing you all the best in Life and in Love! :mrgreen:

[Bashka]

This happen to a friend of mine.. My friend, lets call him Al, and his gf broke up around 6 or 5 years ago because for the following reasons: his family are migrating to Canada and she "replaced" him with a new guy while he was here. To make the story short, both of them moved on. Despite the favors and pleas of his xgf's friends to take her back, he decided not to and forget the past. From what I heard they dont like their friend's bf because of his attitude and behaviour. I havent meet the the guy personally so i cant really tell. Anyways, my friend is a successful engineer and currently working in an US based company. His company decided to assign him in Mactan.. By the way, Bisaya siya and he lives cebu before they migrate... So he was able to see his barkadas and most especially his xgf. As from what he told me, he was introduce her bf, same guy from before.. and everything went fine... Because of his status, he never told anyone about his real job because he is scared of being caught in a scandal... And one faithful day, the girl and her family went to see him... She told him that she was pregnant and he was the father.. At first I did not believe him. He told me that they had a one time *** between them... The girl cried really hard because she doesnt know what to do and her bf doesnt know yet... My friend is willing to take the full responsibility though... If you're in my friend/ his xgf shoes.. what do you do