Who is to be blamed for being a single parent?

[d`monyita]

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OT: yep that is her.... or rather was.... cancer can do that to ya anak...

[ej___]

If i do have a daughter soon, i don't know if i have the guts to tell her to bring protection for her bf.

Basin ma-encourage hinoon on doing it. Well, i really don't know pa. Can't relate for now. Basin naay

parents diha nga nakasuway na ug advice sa iya daughter.

Giunsa kaha nila pag storya? Or basin only a mother can advise her daughter on such a thing. As a father,
I can't imagine myself on this for now.

[edge827]

well la kay lain e blame except you kay kaw nagdecide sa imo self what will happen

[ej___]

Murag sakto ka edge dah.

Makablame jud specially kung dili ready. But, there are many ladies nowadays nga willing masingle parent
as long as naa silay baby. Those ladies are capable probably because they're emotionally and financially stable.

But, most of them are a bit older. Somewhat on their 30's and 40's. :mrgreen:

[cuttie_angel]

wala kay choice man nila to go on separate ways and be a single parent all along. so don't blame the two of them.

[ej___]

Bitaw noh. Depende sad.

[omad]

Who is to be blamed for being a single parent?


first things first, do we even have the RIGHT to BLAME any of those concerned? are we that righteous enough to impose on others OUR BELIEFS? do you think it does any good to put blame on others? will it solve the problem at hand? rather than having them talk about their experiences, mistakes and "lessons learned" THE "blaming" on the topic title would only alienate them further.

discussion is needed to learn lessons from mistakes done in the past, right? do you think "blaming" would be the first step in achieving our goal in learning about this scenario? we don't even know the reasons for their being, and now we're "blaming" them. isn't it ironic?

^ that is how I look at the topic. too self-righteous. too judgmental. too harsh.

put yourself in their shoes, let's talk about how it feels...

[ej___]

[b]. . . . . . .put yourself in their shoes, let's talk about how it feels...

Let's discuss it. To those concerned, feel free to share. For me, I don't need to put myself on their shoe rather, many would be glad to read those experiences and learn something if there is a need.

[d`monyita]

yadz omad...sinabi ko na bitaw sa iya change the topic title...kaso panindigan nya raw eh so hala bira...
i liked your title though ...preventing teen-age pregnancies....kasi however way you look at it...teen-age pregnancies are not right oi.... too young.... too young....

hehehe.

[junmar4]

Naa na ba ning topica?

If wala pa, ato sugdan. :mrgreen:

Maybe this links with teenage pregnancy. Lets look deeper pud the root causes of teenage mistakes.

This is not about judging people but, hope this would clarify things and daghan makakuha ug lessons. I believe there are
a lot of people who have great advises basing from other peoples experience and some from their own experience.

Kang kinsa kaha nga fault?

fault? sayop? kinsa gud tawn ta moingon nga sayop nila?

it's their choice bai.

^^^better change the title, it seems judgmental!