Letting Go of the One you Love

[pinkiepooh]

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when somethin or someone is not doin any good for you.. then it means you need to move on.. you have a life of your own.. you cant juz spend the rest of your life waitin for that person to treat you good... you need to let go..

letting go doesnt always mean its somethin you wanna do.. sometimes its somethin you have to do for yourself.. coz its not healthy for someone if he/she stays in a relationship thats breakin him/her... if somethin/someone's destroying you as a person you have to let it go...

it might be easier said than done.. and it might kill you letting the person go... but you are your own self... you cant depend your hapiness and your future on other people...

i learned it the hard way... and though its killin me letting him go, i still wanna do this coz i know i cant spend the rest of my life waitin for him to feel juz half of what i feel for him...

and i know someday things will be better... letting go is juz the first step of takin your life back and leading your own life.. but it doesnt necessarily mean that you dont love the person anymore.. its juz that its somethin you have to do for yourself..

very well said! need i say more??

[cutieara]

sayon rajud bitaw isulti pro lisod kaayo buhaton...ako im letting go of somebody too...ive been telling myself sayon ra pro usahay makaingon ko nga lisod...pro determination raman sad na siguro para dili naka mag antos...

[lynn]

yah lisod jud. ako gani kay i tot naka let go nko, but i was wrong. tho am tryin my best pero lisod jud. i even tried to hate him pero i cnt help it na mamiss jud nako cya. and ang worst thing pa jud kay wen ever i think bout him, maka drain jud ug energy. la man ta ko strenous work pero mura jud ko work 24hrs la pahuway. but i have to kay ang result is negative jud f remain ko this way. dili jud ko concentrate sa ako life and it seems na am not living my life na the way i want it to be. have any of u guys felt the same way before?

[pazuzu690]

loving some is a good reason to let that someone go and be free...

especially if by our love that someone is suffering or unhappy...

[anniepetilla]

if you think that it would be better for someone if you were not around, or you think that person would do well and live a better life without you, would you let that person go? would you leave?



what other reasons would justify leaving someone's life? (someone you love/loved/like/liked/whatever...)

oo sa first instance. never one for forcing myself on somebody who clearly does not need me anymore, or whose survival depends on my getting lost. Or kung toxic ang presence nimo sa iyahang kinabuhi, split nlang. all for love, ryt? easier said than done..but what else is there? after fighting and losing, the only thing left do's lick your wounds and forget. forgetting is bliss. if only selective amnesia is drug-induced. sigh.

[blade101]

if you think that it would be better for someone if you were not around, or you think that person would do well and live a better life without you, would you let that person go? would you leave?



what other reasons would justify leaving someone's life? (someone you love/loved/like/liked/whatever...)

-when I feel that things would be better if we stopped doing what we used to do.

-when I have a hard time answering the question."do I love her?"

[neishan731]

ofcourse i will! for only then he would realize how much he loves me...hehehe...

[knup24]

kung san cya masaya suportahan ko!!! bisan sakit.. cg na lamang!!!

[neishan731]

sak2 jud knup24....

[shichiru]

it's really hard to let go of someone else so dear, especially if you had not told her personally that you still have the feelings for her. makabuang kaau... i tried letting go (for so many times) of someone whom i have been loving for six years na ( naa na man cyay iyaha, kapaet)... result is mura kog mabuang, affected akong school (nahagbongan kog usa ka subject), work (migamay akong production) even akong other friends.... others told me to find someone else nga mahatagan nako sa attention, but dili nako kaya kay mahulog nga panakip-butas ra...(lain ra ba kau magpahilak ug babaye)...

i did not let go, instead i developed another personality (dual na ko ron) nga ang treatment sa iyaha kay friend lng... that way, di kaayo ko ma-hurt everytime makita nako clang magkuyog...