makigbuwag or dili?? advices are highly appreciated....

[sugarcakes_babe]

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^^Bitaw kidding aside, of course mas nindot man jud ang minyo kaysa sa dili pero, if wala cya nag binuang ug wala cya nag kuwang sa iyang responsibilities ninyo sa inyong anak, ayaw lang sad buwagi.. storya-i lang na ninyo ug tarong and if problema cya sa money, tabangi nlng pud, bhala kanang barato lang na kasal basta ang importante nimo is ma minyo lang mo.

...MEGA LIKE!!!! upper keys ha, para intense heheheheh korak jud ka mainevent, sa few days nako cgeg pagawas sa akong gibati dri sa istorya, nakarealize na nuon ko nga i went too much and unfair sa iyaha.... wala man gud siya dinhi actualy, niuli sa ila hometown which is in tacloban kay sobra pas nasunogan ilang balay pero at least alive and safe iyang family tanan, four days na xa wala and he's coming back ugma kay trabaho pud, ni.leave lang nya dali2 dayon ug larga sa ila..... daghan jud kog nahuna2 sa wa pa siya, i could say naglabi ang negatives than positive pero pagtxt niya ganiha kay nawala tanan negatives waaaahh... mao na dira! hehe pero ana nalang jud, hold on to the tighest i could so as i wont drift away from the smallest grip there is....

[sugarcakes_babe]

ikaw @MaInEvEnT single paka? if u don't mind? jeje

[gotnowheels]

TS,

Well, here's me saying nga I don' know what's your situation with your BF. All I'm saying is that, if you're looking for love, you cannot find it in getting married. You already have it. If you're looking for security, then it's better na mag buwag mo sa imo BF kay masakitan lang xa. Sometimes, girls need to stop thinking nga sila ray naay rights masakitan. Ever wonder ngano bati kaayo paminawon sa mga lalaki ang "Marriage"? it's because the reason that you have stated ngano magpakasal ka. In short TS, wala jud kay salig sa imo BF.

I rest my case.

[rey04]

sakto siya dai. He is very careful sa decision making coz tying the knot is a very sensitive decision.I myself came from a broken marriage and had lots of regrets...So think about it 1000x before jumping into marriage coz ang way out is very narrow. Ang importante kasinabot mo coz if dili, then either one of you will surely go out the circle.

[supermarionism]

Think for a million times TS..

[sammedriano]

I feel you. Actually, as a man and in a three year long relationship with my every loving girlfriend now, we are really putting wedding into a consideration. Actually amoa ning goal duha. We want it to be extra special.

Maybe he's not into it yet. Maybe dili pa siya ready jud sis.

I'm just curious though, I hope you don't mind me asking,

1. How long has it been since you two became BF/GF before you decided to have a kid?
2. How old are you both?

If you don't feel answering these questions in public, you may send me a PM instead. I'd love to be of help.

...hinuon that is what everybody is saying, stick together for the bata no matter what, eh unta ing.ana siya, nya kung maabot ang time nga siya mo cheat, nya pakaslan to niya, kami na hinuon mahimong illegitimate and walay makuha nga bisag centavo nga sustento, tsssss! mao nay g.ingon lagi, maningkamot nalang mig amoa.... so sad lang jud nga of all the girls ako pay g.ing.ani, the fact nga siya akong first bf and all--(u know....) ive been a good gf from the time we were dating til i became the mother of his daughter, i never complained and ask for anything more, til such time nga nakarealize nlng ko, dako na among anak, yet wala pajud ming.level up among relasyon into marriage, and feeling of unworthy, desperate and depression came in... all i wanted is legality and blessing for our family because my daughter and i deserved it.... and i don't think that's too hard and big deal for someone he truly love.... that he himself would not want to me to feel those stuffs, you know i have been voicing it out to him, pero he never addresses the concern seriously but taken it for granted and some lame excuses and promises..... and ive mention pud nga pwede ra walay sing2 and all para dli najud xa mag.aburido and wala nay lusot, na kay ang sukob napud ang g.gamit pang.excuse, sesss!!! hahahay, i have a friend gani nga 500 ra ilang nabayran sa civil wedd and they just bought a cheaper unisilver wed rings, like 300 or 400, pero wa jud, wa epek ni manoy....

[ireneolive]

Im sorry to hear that ts, sa tanan nimong depression/kaguol naagian sa imong partner. based sa imo mga replies, I could notice depressed jud ka sa inyo situation to the point nag attempt na kag suicide. Ayaw pd tawon unsaon na lang imoa anak. Getting into suicide is such a selfish act. So pls don't.

With regards sa main concern kung makigbuwag ka or dili, for now ayaw lang usa kay masamot nya kadaghan imo hunahunaon ug mga kaguol ts samot mawala na imong hinigugma. i know you've been waiting for yrs till mo sugot na syag kasal. based sa iyang moves, murag naa pa syay pag duha2x dha sa imoha. as what few istoryans had noticed already. pero basin dili pa sad saktong panahon na makasal mo. so make use of this time na live in pa lang to save funds for the planned wedding, get to know more each other ug maka hunahuna kag maka daghan kung cgurado na ba jud ka nya. kay sus, lifetime commitment na jd na ts.

ayaw sad kaayo padala sa imo depression. take some time to pray,meditate and have positive thoughts. kay the more ka mag isip ug laing butang like insecurities sa ubang girl dra na gpakaslan dayon buntis pa lang,etc..the more ka mawad.an ug paglaom na makasal puhon. ayaw i-compare imo situation nla ts kay lain lain man tag kaagi sa kinabuhi. naay rason why ing.ana imo sitwasyon run. ingon pa nla think on the brighter side ang importante wala ka pasagdi ug gihigugma ghapon ka nya.

it's okay to remind him about the wedding pero di lang pd palabian kay masakal na unya sya. usahay kita mga baye dali ra kaayo madala sa emotion ug sensitive kaayo. wala pd ta kabalo sa iyang side ngano cge sya himog rason na next yr na lang so on so forth..obserbahi sa sya mintras di pa sya decided. ug kung makita nimo wala na juy paglaum makasal cge ghapon sya rason2x that's the time you have to decide. decide for yourself, what's good for you. ayaw i-rely imong kalipay dinha nya. make yourself busy aron di ka ma stuck up ani nga situation.

after all,these are just piece of advice na unta maka tabang nimo. the decision is still your's. think twice and be wise!


God bless!

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ts sakto kaayu mga advice sa mga kaigsoonan nato..

[dmelsie]

nganu magool man ka miga bahalag di kasado basta di barumbado og way ayo imong bana kumbati nana, unsaon manang kasado tood pero dinagmalan pod ka og gipasakitan sa huna-huna, sa pulong og sa buhat.

[sugarcakes_babe]

sakto siya dai. He is very careful sa decision making coz tying the knot is a very sensitive decision.I myself came from a broken marriage and had lots of regrets...So think about it 1000x before jumping into marriage coz ang way out is very narrow. Ang importante kasinabot mo coz if dili, then either one of you will surely go out the circle.

and you got kids?? neither of you humbled down or very much concern of you bond and mostly for kids sake nalang unta? or it didn't just work...??

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nganu magool man ka miga bahalag di kasado basta di barumbado og way ayo imong bana kumbati nana, unsaon manang kasado tood pero dinagmalan pod ka og gipasakitan sa huna-huna, sa pulong og sa buhat.

hahahaha lol, naa say point, sa pagkakaron, ako jud nang gipugos akong self nga ing.ana.... pero naa gyuy time nga miskan unsaon nakog ing.ana ang mindset.... dmd jud... kansi jud ko, kami akong daughter.... so nganong ni.exist paman ang marriage? kana nga law? unsa na duwa2 lang? so pwede raman d i dili, and even same gender marriage do exist... and i guess it isn't that hard after all if you really love that person, you are always more than willing to do anything for his or her happiness... for his or her happiness is also your happiness... so something ing.ana bitaw.... :/