When it becomes one, Stop.
When it is strides near, Look.
When it opens its mouth, Listen.
"But Never Try to Fix It."
There are times when we thought its about saving what is left of the relationship. Listening to our closest friends or even family, talk about how a relationship needs work and not just LOVE, TRUST, and Whatsoever. But no matter how hard we try to work things out and even loose ourselves in the process, it seems that everything we did was for naught.
STOP.
Pushing things more and working for it can only bring you more pain. A relationship true to the matter that is needs both parties to work. But how? You may be a judge of that because you know what to do in your situation. But, its always a good idea that when a relationship becomes a toxic one... STOP. Take a breather and assess the situation, whether it is beneficial still to put more effort in it. Whatever you're result then stick to the plan and do it.
I for one is a believer of a lasting relationship, but it seems that the longer I do things right the worst comes out as a result. I know and understand that "too much love kill you", it does in many ways that we actually don't notice because we can't seem to STOP. But I guess it took me great courage to do so, for the reason that it is not worth it anymore. Call me anything you want, but I need to do this because I know in the end it will never work out.
Look.
We become blinded to the idea that LOVE is something we ought to build in the relationship and that it is a gift from GOD and therefore should be taken cared for with utmost care. It is something we ought to build but not alone, TOGETHER. Judging by our tradition, it is always a one-sided affair. For LOVE is something to be given without expecting anything in return. But if all the LOVE is already at its peak and still not enough, what can one say about that?
I would say LOOK. Not elsewhere, but within.
I have so much love in me that giving it away seems like breathing, unconsciously and without effort. But what I give away is the same level as what I have in me. I cannot give what I do not have and so if the recipient is not contented with it, then so be it. I am blinded at times too, though. I cannot lie about that, blinded due to the fact that I want it to last forever. Without noticing that the love I have given destroys him and not the other way around. And so I need to LOOK within if what I am doing is still the right thing to do. And I have seen, sadly I need to stop giving him my LOVE.
Listen
The previous statements if done accordingly can be very effective to make a point across and reach its destination. And the result of it is very crucial in ENDING A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP. The other would open up their ideas and use words to make us understand that what we are doing is something that could hurt the relationship.
A good point to be exact but why now? Now that you have seen because you have stopped and started caring.
Listen very carefully, I would say because I have done it. Unfortunately, it makes things worse. The ideas slowly surfaces all the lies and deception. The end point of the story is that "YOU HAVE NOT GIVEN THE LOVE I NEED". But as I have mentioned earlier "I CANNOT GIVE WHAT I DO NOT HAVE" and clearly the other one can't too. Listening can be very effective in making the next move, words can only makes things worse and so use your ears and just listen.
Stop, Look, and Listen...
3 MOST VALUABLE ACTS IN ENDING A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.
-eanphly-
Ending a toxic relationship.
Originally Posted by emailroy2002
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