LOVE PROBLEMS ( post em all here ) READ FIRST POST...

[MyMaria]

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Sory na gd.hehehe. Anyway, tnx for d advice. I'll go and find myself a girl or should I say, I'll get myself a girl.

yeah..that's the spirit!!!...

if it makes you happy.. it can't be that bad... -sheryl crow

[Bashka]

@diem: wow.. that was a long one.. anyways, thanks for the advice.. as of now, i am waiting for her reply... I hope that i would make it in time because from the looks of it, a bunch of guys are messaging her.. even ask her celphone number.. in the friendster i mean... but i hope she would never think that i am those type of guys

[samantha]

wat wil u do f ur bf kips on questioning ure sincerity and honesty??and everytym mkabuhat k ug saup makigbuwag daun cya

[Bashka]

@Bashka

simple lang na... call the gurl

if you think there's chemistry then pursue her...

take another risk maybe this time it will work...

i suggest though na imo usa siya ilhon ug pag-ayo or maybe visit pinas and meet up with her and see how you guys click in person.. ...save yourself from getting another broken heart...

ngano diay diha Bashka, way mga dalaga diha na pinay? I have a friend who lives there..ehehe..how old are you?

lol.. im 24 years old.. i did try though.. pero gasagaran sa mga pinay dinhi either OA or feeling social... and most of them are a BIG turn offs...

[MyMaria]

wat wil u do f ur bf kips on questioning ure sincerity and honesty??and everytym mkabuhat k ug saup makigbuwag daun cya

to me, that's an insecure guy and immature enough to understand that TRUST is essential in relationships...

on the other hand, i see that he's trying to get rid of you since if he seems to be pushing you away... BUWAGI daw -- see if he tries to get back.. If he does, then he's really just being a jerk and needs a good mentoring on relationships... but if he doesn't, then you're better off without him anyway.

tell us more about the relationship so we can evaluate more.

[diem]

[color=navy]^^I agree with MyMaria.

@samantha, I feel its also likely that your boyfriend has suffered some form of betrayal in past relationships and maybe he's very afraid that you would do the same hurt to him.

Maybe, he has cause to feel so.

[duchess]

wat wil u do f ur bf kips on questioning ure sincerity and honesty??and everytym mkabuhat k ug saup makigbuwag daun cya

i'm going to look at another perspective sa imo problem......

i smell something fishy sa imo bf. kana bitaw tawo nga cge ug question sa imo sincerity & honesty kay sila mismo ang naay mga karumal-dumal na krimen nga gibuhat.mao murag defense mechanism nila nga para dili sila masakpan kay ila ipasangil sa uban.

and kung makabuhat ka ug sayop kay makipagbuwag dayon? style na sa mga tawo nga ganahan na mo go out sa relationship but dili lang kasulti so hulat sila nga makasala ang isa para molabas nga dili nila sala.

so what will i do if my bf is like that? you've heard it from MyMaria: BUWAGI. he's asking for it so give it to him.

[MyMaria]

o! there you have it samantha... u heard it from duchess too... and yes, most often than not... from the saying "it takes one to know one" -- kung sige pamasangil ang tao.. most likely, he's doing the same thing kai dili siya gusto maoy mapasanginlan... hahahha cliche kaau pero tinuod gyud na! sanlit... what are you waiting for? let him have it! -- OUT!

and let us know what's up ha... update daYon kung unsa na..

[caspey]

btaw2x. let us know ha. kay basin d i.

[chad_tukes]

I agree with duchess and MyMaria but disagree at the same time.

Seems like girls in this thread conclude like lightning, too one sided it comes to a point where it's not fair to the guys.

samantha, i'm a guy and the reason why i decided to reply in this thread (though it's hard for me coz i'm not into love advice) is because the situation you and your boyfriend is in feels like home to me, sort of.

here are the reasons why he's acting that way:

1. he's insecure: there's that gut feeling in him that something isn't just right. period.
2. he's afraid to lose you: some guys are just like that, believe me. especially when you're sexy.
3. IT IS in your personality: when you're the kind of girl who loves to hang out with guys, chances are, he wouldn't trust you that much.

these are my top 3, there may be more.


chad