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dhemps himuon man sad ta nimo ug match maker. Ako raba ts di sad ko basta basta magpa ila ila ug tawong wa sad ko kaila! hehehe....
Mo balik ko sa imong gi mention
"Kasagaran mga girls karon nga na hookup sa older men, those are DEPENDENT WOMEN!" Yes to an extent nga there are women who are with mature men who are dependent to their man, but two sides of the coin ni siya nga scenario bro. Allow me to explain
SIDE A sa Coin - A woman chooses to be with an older man because some women are not independent therefore their preference on a life partner is someone who can GUIDE them and they can DEPEND on financially.
SIDE B sa Coin - A woman chooses to be with an older man for his MATURITY and DEEPER UNDERSTANDING with life. She is independent as a person, and having a mature partner who already has the wisdom and UNDERSTANDING in life gives her the space of freedom to make choices to better herself (career wise, financially, etc...). Di na kinahanglan ug lalis when it comes to life decisions, wala na kaayoy langas langas pa. Kay ang mga mature nga laki, gamayng explanation, maka sabot na dayon because they focus more on long terms goals rather than short term goals.
Di man sad ta ka conclude nga because tiguwang/mature ang bf/husband sa babaye fully DEPENDENT na siya sa laki. As what I have observed sad, its usually the mature men who gives their women the freedom of choices and space. Kana ganing batan-on pa na mga laki, daghan kaayo ug restrictions sa uyab. Kesho mag selos, kesho di ganahan sa career choice sa babaye kay naay mga ubang laki sa company, or at times hasta ang trabaho pakialaman pa.