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[MyMaria]

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I'm dating this girl for a months now but now I am confuse because this girl that I was dating has some past relationships and when she tell me some of her stories about her past relationships It gives me doubt if I can trust this girl and if she deserve my love but I think I'm falling for her but my mind says not to trust her or not to be serious with her what should I do??

you know...THE FIRST THING YOU SHOULD DO: You should tell the girl to stop telling you stuff from her past... take it from me, my guy never asked me anything about my past... and when I started to tell him stories, he stopped me... and he said: Listen, I don't care about that because this is not about that anymore. This is YOU AND ME now. Let's focus on THIS. And forget about THAT (past).

...and I couldn't agree more.

The thing is.. when you start talking about the past, this paves way for insecurity to seep into the relationship.. and we wouldn't want that now, would we? so yeah, love is all about risk.. take it! and believe... that if it's really love, people change... always for the better.

[caspey]

@caspey, getting into and having a relationship is a choice. Being in love is a chance

You can't hurry love, yes and NO you DON'T just have to wait. Waiting is boring. Get yourself out there! Meet new people, make new friends, learn new things about the world around you and get to know yourself better.

Sometimes finding romance and love is being in the right place and at the right time, and sometimes it doesn't mean you have to wait at the same place again again and again, eh?

I do go out a lot, with my friends. I have a lot of girl friends and some I even have a crush with, but it just won't workout for me. I'm not really that picky, more of a torpe type lng. hehehe. maau lng kn chat ug tx pero atubangan na gai bulol.

hahaha, lingaw murag ako sauna katong college pako...21 nko, pero wa na kau ko think anang mosulod ug
relasyon sakto c diem, kung gusto ka magka.bf/ gf naa raman na kung gusto ka, pero love? dli jed na dali2x
motivation pa jed na xa...mmmm, cguro keep urself bz and work more on your personality for better....

Yeah, I thought about it. kanang fling2x lng pero ambt d makaya sa akong consensya not unless FF lng.

ur mama's right...and the lyrics of that song as well

Yup2x. What about u? U got a bf na?hehehe

[diem]

@caspey, please leave MyMaria alone. If you're going to ask a girl that question, better do say it face to face to earn courage points.

Ani lang bro, you said it yourself... you haven't tried confessing your true feelings to a girl no? Kahit sa crush pa lang? Have you ever tried telling to a girl face to face that "I like you"? For the simple reason of trying to find out that she likes you back?

Maybe that'll get you out of the rut that you're stuck in.

[caspey]

Sa txt ra jd. Never done it face to face.hehehe. How would I say it man? Never been on a date pa sad

Will you go out with me Ms.Tan Bi Se? hehehe. Just happen to visit your multiply site.

[Soul_Captive]

my boyfriend's bestfriend is a girl
..and they spend more time together than me and him..they live in the same town and kusog pa jud au xa magsleep over sa bhaus sa girl..he told me sa room pa jud sa girl xa magtulugan..nagkatext2 mi sa girl before and at that time wa pa xa kabawo na uyab mi sa iya bestfriend..she actually confided in me na she's falling for her bestfriend who is actually my boyfriend..later during that texting session, she figured out na uyab mi iya bestfriend..the next time we texted, miingon xa na na-realize niya na mas love niya iyang boyfriend na tua sa gawas sa country..so i let the issue go..i sometimes call my boyfriend through her number like if naa xa sa haus sako bf and lowbat celfon sako bf..
recently though, nag spy2 ko..i checked my bf's celfon and found there na ang number sa iya bestfriend kay registered under the name "ako asawa" while ako number kay registered simply under my name...i don't know how i should feel...i'm soo confused...i don't want anybody making a fool out of me...guys, give me your opinions beh...

[black_vixen]

Pretty obvious, that your bf loves his bestfriend more than you. And, how long you've been with him?

[Soul_Captive]

Pretty obvious, that your bf loves his bestfriend more than you. And, how long you've been with him?

we just turned three months...should i let go?i wanna ask him about the phone numbers being registered as such but he's someone who's much into his privacy..he's the type who opens up on his own and i don't think he'll take it lightly na nangukay ko sa iya phone without him knowing it bisan uyab pa mi...what do you think should i do?

[Ms.Beau]

my boyfriend's bestfriend is a girl
..and they spend more time together than me and him..they live in the same town and kusog pa jud au xa magsleep over sa bhaus sa girl..he told me sa room pa jud sa girl xa magtulugan..nagkatext2 mi sa girl before and at that time wa pa xa kabawo na uyab mi sa iya bestfriend..she actually confided in me na she's falling for her bestfriend who is actually my boyfriend..later during that texting session, she figured out na uyab mi iya bestfriend..the next time we texted, miingon xa na na-realize niya na mas love niya iyang boyfriend na tua sa gawas sa country..so i let the issue go..i sometimes call my boyfriend through her number like if naa xa sa haus sako bf and lowbat celfon sako bf..
recently though, nag spy2 ko..i checked my bf's celfon and found there na ang number sa iya bestfriend kay registered under the name "ako asawa" while ako number kay registered simply under my name...i don't know how i should feel...i'm soo confused...i don't want anybody making a fool out of me...guys, give me your opinions beh...

what are you thinking?! leave him. sakit-sakit lang na sa imong dughan.

[black_vixen]

we just turned three months...should i let go?i wanna ask him about the phone numbers being registered as such but he's someone who's much into his privacy..he's the type who opens up on his own and i don't think he'll take it lightly na nangukay ko sa iya phone without him knowing it bisan uyab pa mi...what do you think should i do?

naks! 3 months? LOL, and every month kay 2 times ra? gosh!!! you know what? you better off
without him jed. if a guy really really loves you? he wont hurt you like that man. dili ka nya buhaton
ug things nga obvious kaau nga mka.guba sa relationship. girl, been there done that. 3 months?
sus! kugmo ra na jed kung numbers lang imo g.count. hehehe, make up your mind, look what you want
in a guy. know what makes you happy. analyze things done by him. and be strong sad.

[Soul_Captive]

what are you thinking?! leave him. sakit-sakit lang na sa imong dughan.

i'm really thinking about...nguha lang kog opinions coz i might be over reacting...guess i'm not..too bad coz i love him ..but i love myself more