If You Cheat On Your Spouse...Are You A Bad Parent?

[earljahn]

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It is really bad especially if your children knows it....

[dlanyer77]

its bad specially when you got caught. cheating is an act of adventure labi na jud ug sexy imo chicks.

[earljahn]

Its not only bad to your children but also to other people.......
even if your children doesnt know or will never know its very clear tha cheating is not good

[b|tcH_g0dd3sS]

IMHO, these are very interesting logic or shall I say justification, hehe!! Personally, I cannot comprehend the reasoning.

Call me self-righteous or old fashioned but it's black and white, if one of the spouses cheat then definitely you are a bad parent. Do not separate your being a spouse to being a parent because they go hand-in-hand. One of the factor of being a good parent is upholding morals and if you are not such then you can not say that you are generally a good parent.

If you no longer love your spouse or even if you still love your spouse but the domestic responsibilities or relationship just don't seem to work for you anymore, then go your separate ways, DO NOT CHEAT. It's like enjoying a good lover and the warmth of your kids at the same time which just don't feel right. Don't you think?

Yeah. Well said. I am (finally) agreeing with you!

[kolehiyala]

each of us has our own points. let me share mine.
i am from a broken family. my parents separated when i was still in gradeschool. my dad was always out with other girls and my mom didnt seem to be affected til she couldnt take it anymore. young as i was, i was confused, lonely and mad. and yes, i undoubtedly thought they were both badbad parents. and they said, "if we stay together, twil be a lot worse for our family..." blah blah those kind of stuff. anyway, each night i cried and prayed for their hearts to listen to a poor child's cry. but they grew even more apart. as my siblings and i grew up with only my mom in the house. but my father never turned his back on us. anything we asked, he gave. not just the physical things, but everything we asked for. when i needed him to be in a school meeting or just to hang out inthe mall with me and my siblings, he was there, without hesitation. and my mom, she didnt have to work to feed us, my dad was always there. he even buys my mom things up to now. and they've become friends. my dad has a new family and my mom, well.. she says that we're her only family..
but here's it... my dad cheated on my mom and they got separated. does that make him bad? yes, at that point in his life, he was. but does that one thing make him a bad parent? no, not at all. a single mistake cant taint the person that u want to be. take it from a girl whose father cheated on her mother so they got separated but still grew up believing and up to now seeing proof that her father is the best in the world.
but as always, dependots ra man jud na sa tao. di lang ta mag-judge okay?

[raul julia]

not necessarily!

[Jack]

...not necessarily...

you might have choosen the wrong spouse
...but you might have been gifted with the right children.

[DebutsAndIDos]

Depends siguro on how old your child is.

If the kids are all gown up with fmilies of their own, then the kid's emotional well-being is not dependent on the husband-wife relationship na, so okay lang.

But, if they are still kids, yes, definitely, it makes one a bad parent.

[babyjoy]

nope.... bad spouse noon...dle bad parent..


but theyr are some instances ...

[edgeknife]

basta makit-an in front of your children, mao nang bad parent jud.