Children from annulled parents

[Shalom]

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There are different ways of facing this problem, but one thing for sure is, God will always help you deal with it. He knows our limits and if a certain test arises, He will send help. In my case, my parents broke up when I was grade six. I stayed with my mom. It's not easy coz this is a time where you need your parents too as part of identifying self identity. Thank God, He is always good by helping my mother be a responsible parent. Though, a woman, she has been guided by God in teaching me how a guy should be. She has taught me about responsibilities. She has always been there for me in time I need help. She never failed me. For other people who doesn't have either mother or father, God still offers a lot of solutions; we just need to open our eyes. Friends may offer help. Instead of envying, we may learn from their family. We can also learn from the Bible. The Bible speaks of the church as a family with God as the Father.

[crocodile]

its alright

[Fri13th]

These times are hard but they will pass. So keep it strong and live along.

[mike_aizen]

how about the longing of the child for the other parent? as for financial support, dili man sad ta kabuot kung pila ang e hatag suporta sa amahan/inahan nato sad which is another problem. but to top this, emotionally battered ang child hopelessly screaming for help on how to overcome the emotional struggles + adolescence.

I understand coz I have been there. I was lucky that my one remaining parent was there for me and gave me the security and assurance I needed. Time will heal all wounds but in the end it is up to the child whether he/she will let the experience ruin or build their lives..

[SeptemberII]

I have always longged for a family. A family which most of my friends have, the one which you think is united, happy and near to perfection. And ive always envied them.

Instead of envying, we may learn from their family.

Thank you Shalom for opening up my eyes for i have been blinded with pain and anger. I will now learn from their families and sooner or later, i will also be building mine. And i do hope it would be just as i have ever wanted.

Thank you for inspiring me.

[havaianatic01]

nabelong jud ko ani mama nko patay na since 2 years old pa ko and akoa walay pulos na amahan naay kabit, nahimutang gibiyaan mi bisan dghan kaayo mi and mga gagmay pa ky nakabuntis xa sa iyaha kabit og maoy iyaha gipuy an.so nagkabulag2 mi sakoa mga igsoon, naningkamot intawon na mabuhi og mahuman og skwela. luoy kaau ky niagi jud mi pgkatsimay bisan og kadugo ra namo amoa gipuy an, mapafathers side or mom's side, lahe ra jud kaau ang trato. dghan kaayo ko insecurities, mauwawon, di kabalo makihalobilo sa lain ky mao lage ning ngdako ta nga trabaho og skwela ang ginatupag. sakit sa dughan kaayo, wala ky kalipay, dali ra kaau mag ibog2 unya walay tiwala sa sarili, feeling down kaau. tanan nalang cguro negative na feelings naexperienced nko. hate kaau nko akoa amahan and never jud nko xa mapasaylo. but karon ok naman hinuon kaayo akoa kahimtang sukad nagminyo ko plastar na akoa kahimtang, samot nga nagkapamilya ko, fulfilled kaau akoa life makaingun na jud ko na totally happy jud ko as in wagtang tanan akoa insecurities, i feel so blessed jud and i feel every inch of me ang LOVE and Care aning upat ka anggulo samua balay mao nasud jud sakoa utok na di ko gusto maagian sakoa anak ang akoa naagian mao kayod jud trabaho para mahatag unsay gusto sa bata. hate kau nko ang word na broken family, divorced or annulled.faetz dako kau og impact sakoa ang gipakita sa akoang walay pulos na amahan jud.maau nalang naovercome ra nko

[yvonne6]

we cant put words into our mouth and speak for any one else but for ourselves. lahi2 man ang coping mechanism sa taw. truth is, ang pag bribe ug material things sa usa ka bata is just superficial and short term relief ra. dali raman gud kaau na makuha ang material things but there are things after the break up of the parents nga dili na gyud mabalik and mao na ang lisud para sa usa ka bata. mas biktima pa gani ang mga anak kay sa actual couple nga nag buwag. once you find a new love interest, happy2 nasad. pero ang mga bata, nobody cares what they feel most of the time. ang parents would always say, they are ok when infact they are not. responsible and truly loving parents should put themselves in the shoes of their children usahay. ako, i had been separated for more than 10 years but i can never say that my kids have lost the pain from losing their dad, although not through death but still its a loss for them