Having A Relationship With A Playboy/Chickboy/Player Is Not Easy

[jaina]

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lisoda ana oe pass lang ko ana na relasyon

[spartan301]

I salute u ts!!

Yur open minded n honest

[Scoby]

wow ts... taasa gud nimo og pasencya ang understanding...
but everything has its own limitation... Good luck ana T.S...

[skeptic_rob]

ma tinga ko why do girls mo patol gud sa chickboy or playboy bisag kahibaw na sila playboy ang laki

[nailv]

TS wish you luck and I hope that you will not get hurt in the future

Do NOT pray that you will NOT experience pain. Pray for STRENGTH and POWER.

Do NOT pray for an easy life. Pray that you CAN endure a difficult one. ~~ Bruce Lee.

Jesus Christ's life who became a MAN was NOT easy at ALL, so is ours, pero buot huna hunaon, LAYO ra kaayo ato PAIN nga na experience compared sa na experience sa ato GINUO. If you want to follow HIM, then accept and enjoy everything while you're still here on Earth. You will no longer experience pain when you're gone and passed away.


COURAGE confronts Fear and therefore, MASTERS it.

[nailv]

this is why i love istorya.net, being around since 2003... I been to a roller coaster love life... Posting here and there.. Some of you knows the story behind my handle.. At the end of day lessons learned.. This kind of topic and comments helps us to get through with acceptance, open minded, be patience, loving the imperfect person...

power!!!

[nailv]

Was thinking of a relationship like this before because there are times that i get bored with my soo good boyfriend and yet very seloso to the point that even tapad lang nako sa jeep kay lalaki mura syag masuko, how stupid that would be.

If only the relationship was that open, i can handle that. But having *** with others is way too over the limits. He can flirt with everyone and have textmates but having *** to others is a No-No to me.

HAHAHAHA.. talk about NEEDINESS and INSECURITY. hahaha..

I also shared that thing to my ex before assuring her that she is my original one and she will always be,, but her answer and counter was this:

Mao bah? unya kung ako kono beh? ako'y mag ing-ana,, nya ok ra nimu? ? ?

==> I just smiled to her without any answer.. Wa kibaw unsa ako itubag ato. hahaha.. ni ana ra ko,, aw ok.. cge di nalang.. hahaha

[beyee]

Hahahaha! Nalingaw ko sa imo convo sa imo commander nailv/alvin lols

Yours is a perfect example of double standards in our society.
Men can have his fill with other women and it is lauded by the society
however when women do the same thing (and even better *coughs*)
we are already condemned as "sluts" hahaha!

Hahaysss ka funny jud lols

[Renz8]

TS one way ra man kaayo ang inyo relationship kay sya puede nya buhaton bsan unsa apan ikaw dili puede nya e share is that fairIf he truely Loves you he will stick by you&only you......it's ok for him t fantasize w/other women but doing it is another thing........You have endured 6 years in this kind of set up don't you think it's only fair if you ask him to level up your relationship meaning to a matured 1 where respect&love is the norm&not playing around like kids........Pls think hard&ponder your not getting younger..............

[lejean]

@Passport: Caustic? well, whatever you categorized our relationship for it's all real.

@monrose29: I learned a lot through posting on other love problems here, and even posting my own thread as far as my relationship is concerned. Got mixed reactions but at least I got an outlet to let it all out who knows someone out there is experiencing same thing that I am who may be enlightened as to how I handle my relationship and through people's opinions also.

@imyourninja: Yes, it takes time for me to understand him and fully understand him. Yes, it's all about compromising. If we don't and let our pride rule over our relationship we wouldn't be as better person individually as we are now.

@Vanillaskies: Of course sis, innate nature man jud na sa babaye na dili ganahan ana na level to allow a guy to have S** with another girl while within the relationship. Kinsa man sad babayhana musugot ana db? I agree to it to what he is doing because that's what he is. Whether he is really doing it or not behind my back at least kabalo sya what I think about it. He knows what I am capable of doing sad.

@dansoi_1234: Nope. I use my brain and not to have a baby with him or even in my past relationships. I don't want my baby will suffer kay I haven't known myself totally and capable of being a good mother. Musulti sya tanan if I ask him but as to whether he is telling me 100% truth the fact na ne open up siya nako that's already a big thing kay lisud sa usa ka lalake to share all his escapades to someone he is romantically involved with kay hadlok unsa reaction sa babaye. As for tolerating it? Well, like I said that's the price I have to take kane na relationship. I choose to be in this relationship and would have left long ago if I wasn't happy even though there are some bumps along the way. What he is doing is disrespectful well for most mao ne ilaha tan-aw para nako I don't see it that way. He treats me the way a man should treat a woman when we are together. I don't mind what he is doing outside but when it is the two of us, then we should be mentally, emotionally, physically and spirtually present. In this way, we get connected.