How do you unlove love?

[vince_0489]

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there's no way to unlove love, for when you fall in love there's no reason for it, what you experience during that time is irreplaceable and that's what makes it hard to forget...just let it bleed, till it bleeds no more...let it hurt, till it hurts no more and love again, like you've never loved before...time will not undo or forget your love but it sure heals the pain of it...cheers and god bless!!!

[cebu.opportunities]

How to unlove love? It can probably be done through suppression (deliberately done) and repression. When one suffers from amnesia, dementia, and other loss of memory diseases perhaps.

[Wynna]

throw all the memories u had together.....

[abcde12345]

you cant unlove love but you can lessen love for if you love anyone you will keep or at least remember that you loved them in your lifetime that why di matangtang ang love

[farmboy]

throw all the memories u had together.....

garbage and litter abound
but memories get stuck within
they become part of one's soul
nothing can be just
thrown about... like garbage

[entrepreneur101]

It's impossible to forget it completely, but the only way for you to "unlove" someone is by detaching yourself from every emotion and memory that ties you to the person you loved. Some might say about thinking negative things, but that would only lead to bitterness. Rather than doing that, you ought to learn how to set boundaries and reason why it is necessary for you to "unlove" him or her.

In my experience, I've been a martyr in a past relationship that I had. Because of love, I did what I could to make her smile, appease to her every whim, and gave all my strength to give her the happiness she was looking for. to sum it up, I gave it all and it wasn't enough. She keeps comparing me to the other "men" she met, turning a blind eye on how I did my best. She humiliated me in public, slapped me, insulted me in front of many strangers... especially that one time in Ayala...

But after a year or so... I've really had it and told myself that enough is enough. Before we broke up, I did my best to detach myself from the memories I had with her, I told myself that if I keep this up, and use my heart before my head, I will definitely get hurt in the end, and I would not live a happy life. Once the time came, we split, the separation hurt, but not enough reason for me to cry. I gave myself a reason that If I had stayed more in the relationship, mamatay najud ko.

I'm happy now, living a simple and free life... Love is bliss, but once it becomes one-sided, it starts hurting...
But that's the general idea. hahaha drama

mura mo padung gyud ko sa imo kaagi ani bro
thanks sa imo share

[REMBRANDT]

If there's no one else to love
and the sense to love is not there anymore,
then there's no other way going forth but to unlove.

[kuyabog]

unloving love
is as easy as asking a river
to flow from the sea back
up the mountains

forgetting is never unloving love
even then, forgetting is impossible

for love is like drops of rain
in a dry desert, it permeates
and soaks every atom of dryness
unloving love is like
asking the rain to go back
up the skies and remain in
those dark clouds above

[Arya_NotStark]

transferring that love to another deserving one.
lisud pero first step is to open your mind to the idea nga you can love somebody else again. a year or two from now, this will be one of the experiences you can smile/laugh about kay tungod you found somebody else to love na by that time. i hope it will be sooner for you.

[Vanillaskies]

Awayon, pasapoton, palaguton.

Syaro..