If You Cheat On Your Spouse...Are You A Bad Parent?

[earljahn]

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No matter what.... cheating is always bad....
How can you be a good parent when you cant be a good model?

[nab_uang]

^^^
korek ka bro, you should show a good example to your family.... be a good model to your children....

cheating of marriage?!!... YES!!! dako kaau nang sala... your irresponsible and BAD PARENT....

[junmar4]

No matter what.... cheating is always bad....
How can you be a good parent when you cant be a good model?

mao jud.. cheating is lying... so as copying (dili ni ikaw bai ha)...

[jennesse]

On the other hand.

Do you consider constant, rough argument with your spouse healthy?
Kids Exposure to everyday verbal and physical abuse from each other not detrimental to the kids well being?
Hatred, Pain, Discontentment, Disrespectful to each other?

Although logically it does not make sense, this is what we got since divorce is not legal and annulment is expensive.... Happiness when so deprived comes in different ways and means. People who've been through the worse form of abuse in ones union will succomb to seek happiness disregarding where they can attain it from or with... Legal or Not...

Dont forget Happiness is what you make it!

[dubioz]

It depends.

If you cheat just because you wanna cheat, then you are a bad parent. The example is so grossly immoral that you become a bad parent by example.

But.... extra marital relationships don't always start because one parent is a player. Yes, some partners can be abusive. always angry, suffering from personality disorders, so when the other spouse meets someone who pushes the right buttons, or simply someone whom she/he is happy being with, in a way that he/she cannot find in the marriage.... very often you'll find that the spouse who "cheats" is a very gentle and loving parent.

No hard and fast rules.

[earljahn]

[astroboyreal]

ok raman na bah... ayaw lang p[asakop ni misis

[LytSlpr]

Definitely! If di na gyud ka ganahan sa imong asawa, pag buwag mo ug tarong ayaw pangabit.

[earljahn]

sakto kaayo...kung mangabit ka dili gyud na maayo maski bali balihon pana.....

[i am jasmine]

in my own POV, 8 doesnt mean na u cheat on ur spouse, automaticaly ur a bad parent. their are diferent reasons why pipol hooked up into forbidden relationshps. its either der already unhappy with their married life, or their partner seemd to be distant, cold and ocupied with his/her own life or simply because the other half is having an affair too. but evrythng has no conection with how you treat your children, how you show your love to them or how you've ben their most in their time of needs.

downside of this is everytime you preach morality to your kids, you fel guilty. it is mainly because ur teaching them the right things to do but you yourself is doin the oposite.