Oh, the games we play.-(for the Valentine's)

[Lovefreak]

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"The problem with guys is that they pretend to like you when they don't. The problem with girls is that they pretend not to like you when they do."

just an innocent sounding quote i found on Tumblr last night. catchy and sugary, and i immediately wanted to post it on facebook. but i hesitated, thinking someone might read it and think that im being assuming.

"really, JJ....you think someone likes you and is just pretending not to like you? ka-feelers sad nimo." or something like that. worse, if the person who will have that thought is the one girl i really like and whose opinion matters to me.

so between copying and pasting something hits me. Damn! why is it that guys almost always get the blame? Like, we are always lying, pretending, being manipulative? Like all we want to do in the world is to get the girl in bed and ravish her or something.

its a simple thought, really. that both sexes play the game. but guys are accused being criminals. GIrls pretend not to like you, when they really do? No big deal, its their prerogative. YOu just have to be patient. You need to prove to her that you really like her, love her, that she matters to you. You need to do more.

BUt guy pretends to like a girl when he really doesnt? That's just mean! That's just heartless and coldblooded.

What really gets me is that guys are not the only ones playing this game. Girls play it and theyre better at it than men. Well, the girls i knew, anyway. Made my life such sweet misery.

im ranting. im pissed. maybe being sleepless fixing my computer made me so. or maybe someone used to accuse me in the same underlying thought expressd in that Tumblr quote. but in-your-face and much more vulgar language. something like, "you're good for nothing guy- except in bed!" or "you only say i love you and all such sweet things when you're pulling down my panties."

maybe its her, not me. she's got issues. like, why would she text me something like that a day after the sweetest, most romantic day of our life together? maybe she was crazy. the sad part is, i really loved her.

[porzdude]

so this is the post u mentioned awhile ago..

so hus the lucky girl!?!

[beyee]

If you're not that weak, beat the player at his own mind game.
However there's no win-win situation here.

IMO, why lie and mask your feelings if you feel for someone?
There's no joy to it. Pamaol pa na sa heart. LOLs

[Lovefreak]

i dont even know why i posted this. its one of those spur of the moment things...you hear or read something that reminds you of the past. you feel the same emotion you thought you forgotten and then you just had to let it out...

porzdude...just someone i used to know. we had this love-hate relationship. we fought a lot, and make up a lot. we were just young and immature, i guess. we wrought havoc with each other's emotions. her tantrums were as wild as she was beautiful.

beyee...its a game we play...its the main rule of the game. All warfare is deception, said a famous chinese general. dont think that being in a relationship is warfare? the stakes are higher. coz its your heart that is on the line.

im being a little bit melodramatic. but its true. its human nature. we chose to chase something that poses a challenge. as soon as we know we already have someone's affections, we lose interest. we dont miss someone that is right there. we miss someone when theyre gone.

ever met a guy you really like and was really doing evrything to win your affection..and when you gave it, the guy just disappeared? now u know why.

=)

[Renz8]

Life/Love is really very mysterious you just have to live w/it it's a sad reality we mortals have to face everyday of our lives till we die he he he

[THE KID]

bisan ingon ana na ka lami imong lawas ts gibalibaran japon ka?tingalig straight lesbian jud guro.......

[Inbesebul]

TS paningkamot jud kay pila nalang ka adlaw valentines na. go TS go lang nang GO!!! hahaha goodluck

[inyourface]

as soon as we know we already have someone's affections, we lose interest. we dont miss someone that is right there. we miss someone when theyre gone.

TRUE. Makapangutana sad ko nganu ingon ani. You think nay problema sa mga guys ani nga situation?

[Lovefreak]

Renz8..." Love is sweet misery." - Aerosmith

The Kid...Dili eng-ana ako lawas. mao na ako goal...maeng ana ako lawas. =)

Inbesebul...kit-an man lage ka...i thought inbesebul dili makita. hehehe...ok ra man ang pahuway sa Valentines wui, im sure busy and occupied ang mga dating places and private places.

In your face...Dili sad ko katubad ana nga pangutana...i think hundreds of people devote years and their entire lifetime figuring out that question without coming up with a definitive answer. BTW, they're called physchologists, analyst, or pyschotheraphists. =)

[PebblesandKisses]

haha. hmmn. okay..

well, this doesnt apply to all girls not all girls pretend that they dont like the guy they like!