can pre nuptial agreement affects proposal?

[ed168]

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this bothering me, let say if u propose for a marriage n love is still in the air , a few days either one of u open up a pre nuptial agreement topic , im sure d party been asked will feel a bit bad..


for me dli sad malikayan somtimes na makasala but i wont give up my possesion sa ako wife, im sure shes going to sell it as revenge n shes not in her right mind , pro il inherit it to my sons/daughters, i work for them n they r the one left for me..

wat can u say?

[Zahara]

I would say that prenup is one of the most romantic thing you can do for your loved one...especially if he/she is the "rich" one.

I have lots of relatives who got married without it and they're now miserable. It was the one thing they regretted not having. Most people in my family have one...same with me.

Prenups are not only for the so-called affluent people. It is also protection against debts. If your loved one's family is buried in debt, chances are when they die your honey will inherit the debts. And if you and your honey doesn't have a prenup, then you are also liable for it kay conjugal na man. Conjugal pud ang utang.

Another example is when your honey has a kid before you. Chances are, if married namo, muhatag man gyud mog child support. Where will you get the money? Siyempre, sa budget. What if mas well-off ka sa imong honey? Then you will end up paying for it...even partly lang. And i think that is unfair 'coz it's not your responsibility. You accept the kid 'coz it's part of his past. You understand the situation but it will be too much if you end up paying for the mistake that you never did.

If ikaw pud naay money and you have a kid before you got married, it's good for your child na naay prenup kay in the event that you die, you have a control on how you divide your properties. It's fair this way kay matagaan nimo imong kids with your hubby/wife and your kid before you got married. Kay if you don't have prenup, your honey might leave your child (before marriage) penniless.

Prenuptial agreements are protection of the parties involved and it should be seen as such. If you don't like what it says, you can negotiate with the person you love to come up with terms agreeable to both of you.

To love a person is one thing, to trust is another. Change is the only thing that is constant in this world so it's wise to be protected. Men nowadays are NOT like the men during our grandparent's time. They are less reliable. They think of nothing to commit adultery and it's easier for them to give up on the marriage. Unlike the men before them. So it's in our best interest to have a prenup.

[ed168]

ic tnx so much, i was thinking before dat prenuptial agreement is made out of greed.. now it is for the good of the family specially sa mga kids, which r helpless incase things happen.. i know may would b wife hehe.. would be happier hehe..

iv got a friend na iya parents badly separated dat he was force mag puyo2x sa iya mga migos pra at least makakaon sad tsk tsk, luoy kaau..

regarding sad sa mga utang, its nice to start a family free of debt n other liabilities, if there r responsibilities it can b seen before hand, wlay gtago ba i mean..

dako ni syag gasto sa lawyer? wat r sensitive part? tnx a lot

[Zahara]

Im not sure kung mahal siya. It was my mom who arranged it for us. Dili mana siguro mahal kay murag you just have to have your lawyer draw something up (unsay mga terms ninyo...who gets what in case of dissultion of marriage, list of properties, etc) and have the other party sign. You can get married either sa civil or chrch but you have to include the prenup.

Very sensitive issue gyud ni siya if dili open-minded imong loved one. So approach with care. Nothing is impossible with proper communication. :mrgreen:

[ed168]

ic, got it, communicate well, maybe ul open up doors dat r not suppose to, away na hinuon hehe, but im sure it wont lead to dissolution , i like ur answers, they r practical :mrgreen:, somthing dat can b observe in the real world.. n can b picture out.. tnx a lot..

[MONDE]

its really important but philippine society is not yet fully ready for this kind of agreement but they are slowly learning thru education and experience. conservative man gud tah.

[jennesse]

its even better, believe it or not.

It maintains that respect on both sides.

[ronz_rodz]

no comment on this one but i guess thanks for the infos

[LytSlpr]

I would say that prenup is one of the most romantic thing you can do for your loved one...especially if he/she is the "rich" one.

I have lots of relatives who got married without it and they're now miserable. It was the one thing they regretted not having. Most people in my family have one...same with me.

Prenups are not only for the so-called affluent people. It is also protection against debts. If your loved one's family is buried in debt, chances are when they die your honey will inherit the debts. And if you and your honey doesn't have a prenup, then you are also liable for it kay conjugal na man. Conjugal pud ang utang.

Another example is when your honey has a kid before you. Chances are, if married namo, muhatag man gyud mog child support. Where will you get the money? Siyempre, sa budget. What if mas well-off ka sa imong honey? Then you will end up paying for it...even partly lang. And i think that is unfair 'coz it's not your responsibility. You accept the kid 'coz it's part of his past. You understand the situation but it will be too much if you end up paying for the mistake that you never did.

If ikaw pud naay money and you have a kid before you got married, it's good for your child na naay prenup kay in the event that you die, you have a control on how you divide your properties. It's fair this way kay matagaan nimo imong kids with your hubby/wife and your kid before you got married. Kay if you don't have prenup, your honey might leave your child (before marriage) penniless.

Prenuptial agreements are protection of the parties involved and it should be seen as such. If you don't like what it says, you can negotiate with the person you love to come up with terms agreeable to both of you.

To love a person is one thing, to trust is another. Change is the only thing that is constant in this world so it's wise to be protected. Men nowadays are NOT like the men during our grandparent's time. They are less reliable. They think of nothing to commit adultery and it's easier for them to give up on the marriage. Unlike the men before them. So it's in our best interest to have a prenup.

this is very logical, ideal and practical, in business but kung magpa-kasal ka conjugal gyud tanan problema, kalipay, etc. YES, even utang

[LytSlpr]

its really important but philippine society is not yet fully ready for this kind of agreement but they are slowly learning thru education and experience. conservative man gud tah.

it's not about being conervative, it's about having a string attached. even here in the states, it is NOT YET widely accepted.

if di na mo magkasinabot then divide the property through support or alimony. medyo sakit financially but that's the risk you have to take when falling in love.

perfect example is faith. we never saw Jesus Christ but we believe that he exists pero kung sobra kaayo ra ka segurista sa TANAN aspect sa atong kinabuhi, di na lang ta mo simba, tabang sa simbahan, mag ampo kay what if wala gyud di'ay ginoo?

i hope everybody got the logic.