pro live-in or anti live-in?

[newbie.86]

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Live - in = testing testing kung love ba jud nimo imong partner. To say it plainly, you just dont love your partner.

You are not ready to accept him/her and all imperfections, because you can DUMP your partner ANYTIME if di na ka ganahan.

People in this kind of relationship are actually DISPOSABLE -- no matter how you justify it.

Common-law marriage

[nikkobum]

Religion, blessing n watever s right... Under whose terms n conditions??
Nahala pagminyo... Pakasal...

[abulang]

mga tao rmay judgmental..sa akong pagkabalo dili man inana si God..so kung ga live in mo? kung kamo duha sa imong partner kay strong au ang faith nya ug ginabutang ninyo si God sa center sainyo relationship..mao manay important..mga tao rmay mu.label kesyo sinful watever.. di man necesarily galive in ka pra ma dump lang nmo dayon ang imo partner..that is not it.. kung anti live in ka unya mangabit imong asawa/bana? unya unsa nman? forgive nlang and tagaan ug 99th chance hahaha or sa mga ka.aford, anulment.. charott haha

[geo25]

Live - in = testing testing kung love ba jud nimo imong partner. To say it plainly, you just dont love your partner.

You are not ready to accept him/her and all imperfections, because you can DUMP your partner ANYTIME if di na ka ganahan.

People in this kind of relationship are actually DISPOSABLE -- no matter how you justify it.

Common-law marriage

Even those people living together under the blessing God are still disposable. Why do married people leave their wife/husbands go with another man/woman? Why do people get divorce?

A binding contract does not only restrict sometimes it challenges people to resist, defy or rebel.

Isn't it better to check if the water is cold/hot before you hit the shower?

[kolo]

para nako okay raman ang mag live in wui.. maminyo or dili...

[edmundjun11]

pro ko ani. pra sa tight budget and ipon mode pa

[KlaytoN]

I'm neither a pro nor a con but in every situation there must be something to hold on, to refrain from happening,...
If both decided to live together before marriage just to test if they can last with each other's company seeing and experiencing the best and worst of everything then, it will just be fine provided that to keep from being ''immoral" they both must preserve one's dignity and that's the very challenge in the situation.

If you live together before marriage and you have children as the years pass by and later on got separated because of this and that... Found another one, live together again; may have children of their own then things went chaotic, go separate ways again....and.... Is this a good trial and error game?

Agree. This is not a game that every couple should go through. Dili sayon o dili lalim mag live in, samot na ang mag minyo.

Regardless kung unsa pa na inyo setup dinha it is never a guarantee against failure or separation. The risk will always be there. Ang advantage lang sa marriage is protected ang relationship and most especially ang babae.

[noy]

mga tao rmay judgmental..sa akong pagkabalo dili man inana si God..so kung ga live in mo? kung kamo duha sa imong partner kay strong au ang faith nya ug ginabutang ninyo si God sa center sainyo relationship..mao manay important..mga tao rmay mu.label kesyo sinful watever.. di man necesarily galive in ka pra ma dump lang nmo dayon ang imo partner..that is not it.. kung anti live in ka unya mangabit imong asawa/bana? unya unsa nman? forgive nlang and tagaan ug 99th chance hahaha or sa mga ka.aford, anulment.. charott haha

sorry but personally i don't think a couple who places God at the center of their relationship would choose cohabitation over marriage. marrying someone is like choosing God..it requires faith.

[noy]

para nako okay raman ang mag live in wui.. maminyo or dili...

mas kuyaw bro kung minyo unya dili mag live in...Lol

[noy]

Even those people living together under the blessing God are still disposable. Why do married people leave their wife/husbands go with another man/woman? Why do people get divorce?

A binding contract does not only restrict sometimes it challenges people to resist, defy or rebel.

Isn't it better to check if the water is cold/hot before you hit the shower?

romantically, i would have to disagree.it's always better to know somone would marry me despite of not knowing everything about me...
how i deal with problems, struggles and moments of weaknesses rather than
someone who marries me because she knows exactly how i would...

after all, there are other "safer" methods to test the water...