pro live-in or anti live-in?

[iGecko]

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PRO... mura ba og trial and error, experiment ba. heheheh

[cebu.opportunities]

I'm against co-habitation even though i did it for at least 5 years with my present wife. There were several factors why we decided to live-in. We were true to our commitment no matter what the cost and what others had portrayed us as "living in sin." I was not that affected personally coz i became an atheist. Wala na koy pakialam unsay ikasulti sa akong family and relatives. Besides, nung time nga nag live in mi for 5 yrs, i didn't ask any form of assistance from my parents not even a single centavo. Pakamatyan nako amo relationship if needed and i was ready for that. But still i don't want this to happen to my future kids.

I met my GF in December 2003. We started to live in sometime in 2007. In 2011 she left for work abroad. We got married this year and plan to have children next year.

We survived the test of time.

OT: good for you...

OnT:
I'm neither a pro nor a con but in every situation there must be something to hold on, to refrain from happening,...
If both decided to live together before marriage just to test if they can last with each other's company seeing and experiencing the best and worst of everything then, it will just be fine provided that to keep from being ''immoral" they both must preserve one's dignity and that's the very challenge in the situation.

If you live together before marriage and you have children as the years pass by and later on got separated because of this and that... Found another one, live together again; may have children of their own then things went chaotic, go separate ways again....and.... Is this a good trial and error game?

[tinkerbellfrompixiehollow]

Pro jud ko.. Period.

[nikkobum]

pro live in but kani na term kay so 60's or 70's pani... ang new term ani sa 90's kay STAY IN....
Ang stay in preha ranig minyo ka... mas ngilngig pa gani ni kay walay kasulatan pro nag puho ghapon mug usa ka balay.
ma stay in or ma minyo mag bulag man gani ghapon so regardless as long as ur happily living or staying in 1 house together s wat s important.

[yvonne6]

maayo na mag live in sa...kasal raman gihapon padulong ug magka sinabot rather than spend a lot for the wedding and spend more to get an annulment if its not what u expected to be. dili lang gyud malikayan, esp mga elders, lain jud ilang panan aw sa babay nga na angkan na ug kapila na gi live in ug lain2 nga laki. but if si guy and his family does not care, keber, ana man jud ang panahon karon, dali ra ang mga taw mo biya ug mangitag ipuli if its not working, nganong ipugos man jud ang dili madala...much better mag live in lang sa, esp karon nga mga taw dali kaau mausab

[Bangkera]

I am against live-in even if I was a product of one because I do believe that it's a sin in the eyes of God. Doesn't mean nga uso nana ron kay sakto nana. It's still and will still be considered a wrong doing even if mao nanay trend karon labina if you're catholic. Usa pa, mas maayo nga naa jud blessing sa Ginoo ang pagpuyo. Mas maayo nga wala ka nakonsensya inig sulod nimo sa simbahan kay kabalo ka nga wa kay dakong sala nga gidala sa imong konsensya....

[tonyYOUNG0310]

biblically speaking, anti jd .. plus sa culture pjd ntu . but practically speaking ok rmn na . specially f nag ipon pmu for wedding. pro both parties wa'y trabaho nya nag pbuhi ra sa parents nya young pjd kau . ay` nlng jd pag tuga tuga kay mlarge rjd mu ana ! HAHAHAH

[jeremiahjay]

I cannot decide for someone's life but certainly I can decide for my own self and affairs..

I am anti living in.

[Wynna]

pro live-in ko, but in the long run, mangita ra gihapon kog kasal....

[grlnxtdor16]

ako manjud conservative man kaau akong family. but as for me, i think im pro live in.
simply because it is nice to know the person fully before going into marriage. marriage is a BIG thing and its good to know what you go into pod.

many may not understand, but to those who do i think u get what i mean.