@PaYaSo -- actually, what you just said, is making me smile right now because I recall something that happened with me and a PI-based friend a while ago. I was going through a tough time because of the death of a friend. Down kaayo ko adtong panahona. And of course, kaming mga babae, when we feel down and sad, we connect with our female friends hoping to find comfort. So I called this friend of mine. Imbes ma comfort ko, na irritate lang hinuon ko coz she told me, "sagdi lang oi ayaw lang kaguol, suerte gani ka kay naa ka dinha, nag earn ka'g dollars, sus kami dire namroblema unsaon pag budget sa kuarta". That was a head-scratcher for me. So I'm not allowed to be sad because a friend just died and I'm not allowed to seek comfort from a PI-based friend because I get paid in dollars? what the h*ll! LOL