Letting Go of the One you Love

[bot_yok]

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gud!!!!, agree ko nimo Cutieara......bravooooooooo....

[bot_yok]

gud!!!!, agree ko nimo Cutieara......bravooooooooo....

[overseer]

he's groveling now, d na man jud cya maka ari, cge col and txt begging me to let him come home and see the bb even for 5 mins lng daw, but d lang sa ko ron coz i know, madala na pud ko sa iyang mga sweet talks, mao man na iyang saligan ba

that would be best for now.. do not allow him to go to your home, especially if u know it would just make things harder for you.

it would be better if he can't call/txt you. change ur phone numbers if it helps.

u seem to know what u need to do... so just do it, even if ull find it hard sometimes.

[electrons]

maybe you still love that person in depth that's why!

[cutieara]

u cant take that away from her electrons...that's why she's hurting becoz she still loves the person...

[overseer]

i think thats the answer to this topic's title...

[alas]

mao lisud pag limot...or perhaps d jud malimtan...simply because he has been a part of you...and that can never be erased...not even time could erase him in your heart..

There is a belief that time heals all wounds. The premise of this belief is that the further you get away from an event in time the less the pain is felt that is associated with the event. Does time offer this? The answer does not lie in time or in another idea that has been born in time. It is in our own mind. By learning to access and using another level of mind, we can heal ourselves of the pain.

[KaTzKi]

inana dyud na sya.. am actually asking the same thing. pero i've decided na mgwait nlng ku sa time na ma OK ku kesa pguson nku akung kaugalingon permi na ma OK ku, cos mas lisud mn samot, cos ma pressure nman nuon ku.. sigh.

lisud dyud bitaw.. sayun kayu sa uban tao na mu ingun na "limti nana, wla na sya ayo" pero when yer in the position, lisud dyud. kun sayon pa, hagbay r'ku OK unta..

pero sa situation nmu boliklik.. mas lisud sya cos married mn gd mu, so ipray lng na gurl.. naa rba mu mga anak, kun unsa dyud imung decision n if gaan sa imuhang paminaw, then do that. prayer nlng dyud mk'tabang nmu.. n weigh things.. be open minded, n learn to forgive him pra mk'move on pud ka, it will be hard, it will take time, but u'll be fine.

[digitalsuperman]

maybe you still love that person in depth that's why!

yeah, i agree with you..
maybe its hard for you coz the feeling is still there...
the harder it would be if your in denial...you might ask in what way..
well, my wild guess would be that, you just can't take the fact that he left you..and my guess is, thats why you want to forget him coz you think that if you can forget him, then the hurt deep inside would just fade away..
but i guess it won't work..the best thing you could do is to accept the fact that you still love him as you do now...try to be happy for him, in that way you ease the pain inside, it sounds ridiculous but it might just work...they say time heals all wounds..but it doesn't remove the scar that it left behind.
i think the issue here is not forgetting, rather forgiving...try to forgive him.
i know its not easy after all he's done, but do it for yourself and the kids, not for him.if you can forgive him, then maybe you can let go of him, thus slowly getting rid of the pain.


--just my two cents worth.--
--just an opinion, not a reaction.--
--not an advice,just a word of compromise.--

[psyche_08]

@boliklik - be strong girl. you're not alone. i know it sounds stupid, me giving advice and my love life's been hell. anyway, just want to voice this one out. cebutech is right, sue him. i mean, after what he did, do you still want him back? if he's back, is there any assurance that he's not going to o it again?

look, you got the most important things - your kids. you dont want your kids to grow up with a father like that, do you? but then again, people change. I do pray you make the right decision though.