-AMALAYER- - Rude LRT Girl Passenger (November 13, 2012)

[hyori]

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‎"So you're telling me AMALAYER?! No ate! I'm not! Because AMADOVEGIRL and I love it!"

[glasswingedfaerie]

siya na nag ingon nga educated siya
murag part man tingali sa ato school ug company education nang proper escalations

The passenger claims the guard accosted her and asked, "Anong problema mo?". Asking someone what her problem is IS also not correct. Maybe that's what provoked the woman. I'm not saying it justifies things. I'm not saying that what she did was right. I don't approve of shouting at someone or berating someone in public. I just don't want people to forget that IT WAS A REACTION TO AN ACTION. It wasn't the most morally upright reaction but someone did something to her first. Let's just be fair.

[glasswingedfaerie]

actually bai.. kasagaran security guard wala gani nag minimum ang sweldo...thats reality... and to think most of them kay tag 12hr shift... and kasagaran ani nila naningkamot manarbaho kay wala nay laing kapadulngan... dili choice nang ingon ani nga panarbaho diri sa pinas... kung dili kinahanglan aron mabuhi.... although that does not mean nga wala silay rules nga sundon.. but atleast nalang kitang mga taw nga mas hayahay nila unta ang mosabot... naa man gud ubang taw na kung naay pangutana derecho sa guard maskin pwede ra gud unta to masulbad sa kaugalingon pero naanad sa sayon... daghan kaau sa ato na kung mag frisking na gani ang guard, masuko... nga unta katungod mana sa establishment.. kung dili ka gusto then ayaw ug sulod...

then sa bangko... ipa.off/silent ang phone... masuko... ngano man intawn oi... part na sa usa ka edukado na taw ang pagsabot sa pamala.od sa establishment nga kasagaran mabati.an nimo sa mga guard... now kung dili ka gusto kay kuno harassment then leave that area..

then about aning amalayer... if naa sayop ang guard, usa ka tubag sakto na... then report sa management... dili kay magsyagit syagit... the fact na dili niya macontrol iyang emotion says it all... actually mas effective gani na mo report ka sa management kay kasagaran na guard diri sa pinas agency... and ang management sensitive kaau na sa mga guards kay pwede rana sila ma.ilisan kung naa man gani negative feedback ana nila...

There really ARE rude guards out there. If someone politely asks them a question, why do some of them answer rudely?

[FAQ]

actually bai.. kasagaran security guard wala gani nag minimum ang sweldo...thats reality... and to think most of them kay tag 12hr shift... and kasagaran ani nila naningkamot manarbaho kay wala nay laing kapadulngan... dili choice nang ingon ani nga panarbaho diri sa pinas... kung dili kinahanglan aron mabuhi.... although that does not mean nga wala silay rules nga sundon.. but atleast nalang kitang mga taw nga mas hayahay nila unta ang mosabot... naa man gud ubang taw na kung naay pangutana derecho sa guard maskin pwede ra gud unta to masulbad sa kaugalingon pero naanad sa sayon... daghan kaau sa ato na kung mag frisking na gani ang guard, masuko... nga unta katungod mana sa establishment.. kung dili ka gusto then ayaw ug sulod...

then sa bangko... ipa.off/silent ang phone... masuko... ngano man intawn oi... part na sa usa ka edukado na taw ang pagsabot sa pamala.od sa establishment nga kasagaran mabati.an nimo sa mga guard... now kung dili ka gusto kay kuno harassment then leave that area..

then about aning amalayer... if naa sayop ang guard, usa ka tubag sakto na... then report sa management... dili kay magsyagit syagit... the fact na dili niya macontrol iyang emotion says it all... actually mas effective gani na mo report ka sa management kay kasagaran na guard diri sa pinas agency... and ang management sensitive kaau na sa mga guards kay pwede rana sila ma.ilisan kung naa man gani negative feedback ana nila...

You're comparing other incidents sa ining insidente ... but for the purpose of having a conversation , sakyan na lang nato ni .

Wa koy problema sa work ethic sa mga security guards dinha , they're one of the most underrated employees sa Philippine job market . Gamay jud ug sweldo pero sila they choose to work in this field kay aron naa'y security sa ilang financial para sa pamilya ug pang bayad sa bills ug unsa pa . Uban pa gani sa mga guards kay AFP reservists - naa jud sila'y discipline .

PERO di jud ko mo ingon nga SAKTO sila pirmi ug kadaghanan sa mga guards are working with ethics and integrity . I'm not saying SAYOP sa LRT guard ang tibuok situation PERO you are all making this guard a HEROINE just based from that one-sided video . Kita ba ka sa video nga instead ang guard e diffuse ang situation , nakig lalis pud hinoon galing lang she displayed a limited body language mao na nga nahimo jud siya as someone nga gi daog2x sa eksena ... laban dayon ang mga Pinoys ana kay mao man na kasagaran eksena sa ilang paboritong telenovelas .

Ang conclusion sa investigation sa LRTA , nga she failed to place her purse sa x-ray so gi bira sa guard ang arm ni Ms "Amalayer" and then spouted side comments and facial expressions mao nga ming init ang ulo sa kontra-bida . I don't care kung kinsa ang sayop or sakto , wa koy labot .

It's just very sad nga mo jump ug conclusion dayon ning mga taw dinhi unya laban dayon sa taw nga ming portray as the bida nga gi daog2x like sa mga telenovelas .

Living in Canada doesn't erase bad cultural habits and make you Canadian. Doesn't your post show the same characteristics that foreigners make fun of when they talk about people in the Philippines?

And are you really implying that Canadians don't make assumptions based on things they see in the media? Who are you trying to fool here man? Hahaha... Give me a break...

I just don't get as to how my citizenship and living in Canada has to do with this . I don't care if I'm thinking like a typical "foreigner" because I'm just posting my honest opinion here in a balanced manner . If you want to track down my posts here you'll see that I'm not siding to anyone . I respect the right to a due process not judge the "rude" girl on an internet forum and inciting cyberbullying . Accuse me of anything you all want but that's not going to change my opinion just because the majority of the population here opposed to it .

Ok , are you REALLY that insecure when someone of a different nationality are criticizing and/or making fun of the Philippines and Filipinos ?! Gimme a break ... lol I don't care if other Canadians or anyone of a different nationality are making assumptions on things they see on TV or their thoughts of the country . Their personal stuff aren't my business to begin with and I respect their right to an opinion .

I know my rights are and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself when times that I have to do it ESPECIALLY alone . I applaud the Amalayer girl for standing for herself instead of acting like a weeping Judy Ann Santos in Esperanza that you guys would always love to see with delight .

[glasswingedfaerie]

kauwaw ba.. bisan pa ug ang gwardiya maoy sayop pero nagpaubos naman ang gwardiya dn ang girl naman sd ang nagminaldita maong wa gyud cyay batasan ang result.. saon taman itchy bitchy man.. hahahaha

The woman should not have shouted. She should have just filed a complaint. Moreover, these guards should be trained/taught how to enforce their establishment's/company's protocol properly - without offending the patrons.

[glasswingedfaerie]

The video is one-sided, judgmental and malicious.

[monroy]

@FAQ: Nah, I don't think you post like a foreigner you post like a pinoy ofw with superiority complex.

If you don't care that Canadians jump to conclusions when they view media, then why do you care that Pinoys also jump to conclusions? My point was that jumping to conclusions isn't restricted to us pinoys.

[monroy]

The video is one-sided, judgmental and malicious.

Aren't you also jumping to conclusions? The person who took the video might have only had the opportunity to take a video of the incident as it occurred since the girl was drawing attention to herself. To ascribe malicious intent would presume that the videotaker intentionally left out the prior scenes when what's more likely to be the case is that he/she only started recording when the girl started making a scene.

In any case I believe that true test of character is in how people deal with being offended by others. Some people laugh it off, but others react in a really embarrassing way like in this case. Being slighted is no excuse for acting the way she did. She couldve handled it much better and still got her point across.

[FAQ]

@FAQ: I don't think you post like a "foreigner" you post like a pinoy ofw with superiority complex.

If you don't care that Canadians jump to conclusions when they view media, then why do you care that Pinoys also jump to conclusions? My point was that jumping to conclusions isn't restricted to us pinoys.

Again , I'm just posting an opinion here . I'm not on a "witch hunt" for particular posters who are jumping into conclusions . My post was intended for a reply to someone here and I said people will side on whoever portrays as a protagonist similar to telenovelas and NEVER seek the whole truth despite the fact LRTA just disclosed their investigation for all to see . That's it . Then you on a moral high horse and making it a huge deal .

[glasswingedfaerie]

Aren't you also jumping to conclusions? The person who took the video might have only had the opportunity to take a video of the incident as it occurred since the girl was drawing attention to herself. To ascribe malicious intent would presume that the videotaker intentionally left out the prior scenes when what's more likely to be the case is that he/she only started recording when the girl started making a scene.

In any case I believe that true test of character is in how people deal with being offended by others. Some people laugh it off, but others react in a really embarrassing way like in this case. Being slighted is no excuse for acting the way she did. She couldve handled it much better and still got her point across.

It DOES have malicious intent. When someone makes a scene, as passersby, we walk away OR we politely suggest the disagreeing parties talk it out somewhere private. WE DON'T TAKE A VIDEO OF IT AND UPLOAD IT ONLINE.