how does a woman think???

[grlnxtdor16]

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nge.ka boring ra ana ah.things become so predictable and stuff. wai au. mau man na nga ma challenge sad mu oi.di man sad nah pwede nga e spoonfeed mu oi.unsa murag bata!

[glass_slipper]

i think its difficult to understand women because men & women process things differently from their brains: men think with their left while women think with their right side of the brain. thus in effect, women tend to process things using emotions while men use logic.
even from the start there's already disparity with the thinking processes...so all i can suggest is for you to have open lines of communication...communicate, communicate, communicate.

[P-Chan]

hehehe... so we could be more.. um.. "sensitive" ?

[grlnxtdor16]

ambut nimu.. if u see it that way...

[cebutech]

OT: unsa diay age ninyo? P-Chan & grlnxtdor16?

[P-Chan]

kay ang number 1 ako na bantayan.. if a guy does something.. pura lang kuwang/gamay ra.. and if a girl does something... sometimes dili ma notice or gamay ra or walay.. "Oh... (bla2x...) i love you"

[grlnxtdor16]

cguro because both party does not achnowledge unsai g buhat nila for each other... ang ang sad oi, (sa girls point of view) BRUTAL sad kaau nang mga guyz oi, if a girl does something special for them mura ra ug wala nila.igo ra thank you. more expressive tah mu sa inu mga feelings and stuff. pra kibaw sad mi.alang lang mag guess nlng mi pirmi.ang girls klaro kaau unsai na feel.

[wormwood]

thanks everyone especially the female respondents. but yeah, i think this has gone far from the answers that i expect. jenzer (?) basically got my drift. so um,

what im really trying to ask is: Are girls/women really sincere when they say they love someone, mean the things they say, and hold true to their promises, the promise to love his guy forever? and by that, they wont fall in love with someone else?

[muscles]

Wormwood..such deep provoking thoughts.. (as a side thought it says volumes about you... you care enough to ask,consider, to ponder such thoughts.. your woman is fortunate)..and reflective of some personal pain.. i am sorry about that for you.... It is interesting as with a friend of mine i had a similar type of conversation... it is very complicated and doenst serve to generalize too much as each woman is unique.. but i can speak for myself... When I tell a man that i love him for me it is all the things you described, saying what i mean(integrity), implied exclusivity of being each others one and only... the love comes from my heart and my inner being...and is uncompromising in steadfastness.. and the willingness to stick it out thru the tough times is promised..but as you know in real life situations occur and the promises of love to death do us part become broken... my life expereinces have taught me that till death do us part love is a rare commodity.. and persons enter the union with a firm belief that they will be able to hold true to that promise but then life happens.. and the stressors of living begin to eat away at the commitment.. people put more time and energy into other things in thier lives and the "love" becomes secondary, third, fourth in priority in thier lives..those folks who dont make thier love a priority are the ones who "lose" the feelings of love and Commitment and look else where..and it takes two partners actively seeking the same goals of committed love... those who succeed till death to us part are the ones who understand that love grows, changes, evolves and is never static..and comes with alot of "acceptance "..and lovingness is about how you "see", how you view your beholdened.. when you think that person is the "best" all you see is the "best" when you feel dissatifaction, discontent, needy in your heart it is then that you begin to "see" faults and your heart grows distant..so i see it as having and keeping a loving attitude and heart about your beloved......you accept them as who they are, as they dont change much.. and you decide if you can live with the person "as is"Â*

do women mean what they say?Â* once again i can tell you about me.. and the answer is yes and no.. most of the time i am straight forward with my thoughts.. but the times when i am afraid of refusal, denial of what i need emotionally.. then it becomes an issue of.."how can i get what i want and need?" which fosters the enviroment of trying to manipulatie, change situations to gain the security i feel i need at that time.. and that is never a good thing.. it is based in fear which is the driving force behind the behavior which is understandable but the method of getting needs filled become muddied..and opaque and filitered.. so the person on the recieving end of the behavior senses duplicity and dishonesty..

my sense about you is that you have been hurt by a women who promised you her love for ever.. and then did the unspeakable, dishonorable action of seeking love before being honest with you to say that her feelings had changed... what is ..is...wormwood.. the truth of the matter? whomever you decide to share your life with you deserve fidelity and a person who will love, respect and honor you in return..we all deserve that. it becomes an issue of ..my heart has been hurt.. can i trust again?..can i open up my heart to the possibility of being dissappointed again?Â* only you know the answer... hope this helps some..

[hyrei]

yup gals is true to their feelings noh... they really mean it but i'm not saying to all ha coz i know some are not but n general girls are sincere when it comes to love because we are more emotional than you guyz.