Merged: All Love Problems

[g.o.a.t.]

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simpol rman solusyon ane ts oi tsktsk

[budoyski]

Panakip butas perting klaroha...

[GelaiM.]

Hrmf, how was it resolved then knowing that it was not OK for you that he went out his way to meet up with the ex... Were you guys able to sit down and talk it out? What happened after he txted you with your endearment as if nothing had happened?

For me, it's such a disrespect and an emotional torture that a bf would go out of his way to meet up with an ex knowing that the gf completely objects the idea. Listen to what your mind says TS, the heart is bias most of the time. Make sure that you are not just an option. You are a priority...

We weren't able to talk about it yet coz I plan to cool down and he didnt communicate jud after me response of objection with the idea of meeting his gf. I wana find out also if he's really running after me. If not, maybe it would be best to leave. Though we were able to discuss the same issue however mu likay man siya. Ingnun ko nya na "hangtud matiguwang nalang ta inganah ghapun ka?".. Or something na ako sayup ky magselos ko. I mean, we have never settled that issue. Usa pa, iyang actions raman jud hinungdan nanu magselos ko. Kapuy kha magselos ah.Tssssk

[GelaiM.]

simpol rman solusyon ane ts oi tsktsk

Whats that 'simple' you're referring to? Simple siguru para nimu TS. Kung simple pa para nako, hagbay nakong ni biya aning sitwasyona. tsssk

[cebu.opportunities]

read this:
https://www.istorya.net/forums/love/5...d-threads.html

I replied with the link sa specific rule not because I find your situation as stupid TS (Thread Starter). You may post your concern sa existing thread that those who will respond to you won't get any infraction.

[kageron]

1. What are his actions implying?

Ask him why he wants to play? Does he really love playing badminton why not play it together with you?

2. Gi himu ba ko niya'g panakipbutas?

Why do you say panakip butas raka did he court you with manner and respect?

3. Could it ever be possible na mu balik jud akung BF sa iyang Ex when the girl signals "available" to the "relationship slot"?

The signals are strong if they continue to mingle and bond for sure they will.

4. Should I end it as soon as now than repeatedly getting hurt and having doubts if he's over with his Ex?

before ending it and wasting another useless relationship prankahi imong uyab on whats the real deal.

And seriously why would your BF want to meet his ex? Does this not ring a bell to you? It's a simple clue that's implying something.

[psychologic]

his reasons and actions will speak for itself... i cant say na gihimo raka niyang panakip butas ha but without even asking permission nimo na magkita sila that means something. if mananghid sya, ofkors masuko. and if dli, well, he's lying. right now masabtan nako imo situation. feel the pain more until u feel it no more...

[reyscott1968]

exactly .... feel the pain more until u feel it no more...

[psychologic]

you have all the options sis. challenge nana nimo.. opportunity pod na nimo..

[mbneiz]

it could be a blessings in disguise basin signs nana nga dli jud cya para nmu, ako katry ko ana wui, nanguyab lang ko for fun pero ug manawag ang akong uyab nga wla me nagklaro ug buwag, sus ang akong heart kay murag naglukso2x sa tumang kahinangup, by the way ang among situation kay ni abroad akong girl tapos way lingaw did2 trip2x cya ug uyab2x ug lesbian, at first trip lang hangtud pagtagaan na cya pirmi ug bsan unsa dha from roses to chocolates to stuff toys etc, nya caring pa jud knu kaayu gentleman aw gentlewomen diay hehehe, karon murag lisud na knu cya pgbuwag but she still love me, so ako kay sa naman mag goul2x ko sa iyang gibuhat adto, uyab2x lang sad ko dri ug ako, puros murag duwa2x lang, luoy pud bya ang girl kay naa jd moserious nmu bisan kbalo na, karon nuon wla na ko anang bisyuha, dle maayu pakasad on nmu si juan tungod kay nkasala nimu si pedro.. dba?..

on topic bitaw sis y not try to talk it with him, nya ug unsa man gne, dawata nlang..