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[odods77]

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Pero maka recover ra na sya eventually. Time heals all wounds including wounds of the heart.

yup!! thanks jud kaayo friend.

[odods77]

6 years bro, wow that's something..

mao jud bro. dugay na jud mi nya. din nag bulag lang dayon. sayang hunahunaon no? pero cge lang, ana man jud na. alang e force nako akong self f wala nakoy love nya. torture pod na sa akong self oi if mo continue ko sa relation namo.

[jugs_06]

mao jud bro. dugay na jud mi nya. din nag bulag lang dayon. sayang hunahunaon no? pero cge lang, ana man jud na. alang e force nako akong self f wala nakoy love nya. torture pod na sa akong self oi if mo continue ko sa relation namo.

dugay pud ang 6 years oi.. my longest was 3 years.. agree ko nga dugay jd ka maka get over especially when that someone's all over you katong kamo pa.. mura kag g-kuhaan og other half..

hmmmm i guess at ur situation bro it's more like napul-an naka niya? or nawala na jd ang love like you feel you have to be with other girls na pud? normal rana bro..

[n`gel]

No problem @dodo. Gudluck with your new gf though.

[odods77]

dugay pud ang 6 years oi.. my longest was 3 years.. agree ko nga dugay jd ka maka get over especially when that someone's all over you katong kamo pa.. mura kag g-kuhaan og other half..

hmmmm i guess at ur situation bro it's more like napul-an naka niya? or nawala na jd ang love like you feel you have to be with other girls na pud? normal rana bro..

Murag ana jud bro. yup normal na jud na.

[odods77]

No problem @dodo. Gudluck with your new gf though.

Thanks friend.............

[meOwkyU]

@ diem and all who helped...

hi its me again...dun worry! im not gonna whine about how painful my situation IS coz right now it's a WAS...

i was already able to tell him how i feel--although, with the help of my closest guy friend who happened to be his bestfren but, who cares?

i told him everything...the pain, the agony, the joy, the sorrow, the regrets and the love--and guess wat? we're totally back to normal now...as FRIENDS that is... i did not ask him to choose between his GF and I, instead i told him that all i really wanted was to take the burden and guilt off my shoulder and it worked...

i no longer feel any pain wen we talk because it seems that my feelings for him has lost its intensity because i made a boundary between us that very night we talked...i created a lined by which i have no intension to cross...and i assured him that i never had any regret in having him as a part of my life...

now, i can talk to him with a straight face (it took us around a week to talk back after the big night)...no more fantasies inside my head...and eventhough i lost him, it feels like i've won another side of his heart, the friendly side...tenx au ninyu...now im at peace...

"Fact is, no matter how much you hold on to something, it will juz spill out-- like desperately grasping a handful of sand...Sometimes, letting go is the best way to have wat you really desire..."

[jugs_06]

@meowkyu:

first stuff, congratulations for finally doing it.. i told you, it's not as easy as you think but once you get past that, everything should be alright..

now, all you gotta worry about is when he knocks on your door and ask for another chance..

this saying is one i honestly feel strongly to, one of the rule of thumb for guys:
----> When you start losing ground---disappear. - Anonymous

you should've told him that, kiddin.. but even if you have, the guy probably will spend a lot time thinking and contemplating about how things could've been different if you didn't let go of him..

i know, it sucks.. like i always say in my advices in this thread, "been there, done that"

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.........

[n`gel]

@meowkyu: Good for you So he didn't chase you afterall? Tsk too bad for him

[WinFlo]

Pero maka recover ra na sya eventually. Time heals all wounds including wounds of the heart.

i agree. but the "magic" word there is "eventually", which means it could take months or even years. esp if it involves the heart, lisod jud.