naulaw ra tuh sa iyang gipost, TS, mao gapamawi. let go bahala di sia musugot. lain au nang mura ra siag napugos na mu-stay. pero depende ra pud nimo if gikapui na pud ka.
ambot niya sis, as of now wa pa mi ga buwag, di man sya musugot.. bsag unsaon pa nako.. today nag lagot na pud ko niya, nausab naman gud sya.. for 3 years bah, bsta ... gikapoy na jd ko to the point usahay maka think ko nga mu abroad nalang..nya mag AWOL ko sa iyaha
ingna dayun ts na its not you.its me.pakapini ug u deserve better.nya sampungi imo mata kunohay nag hilak ka nya dagan tunga tunga sa ulan.aw wa man diay nag ulan sa.sharo di siya ma turn off.buwagan lagi dayun mo.
Maayong buntag kanimo ts.
Boot ko motampo ug gamay kabahin ning imong suliran o maingon ta suliran ninyong duha sa imong uyab. Gipakli ko ug gamay ang kutay nga binuhat sa imong hinigugma ug pasayloa ako apan tataw kaayo nga ang iyahang pagpangga diha kanimo inanay na nga nawala. Dili ko sinati ang tanan nga kalalakin-an apan kadaghanan dili gayud makaako pagbuhat ug sama ato nga kutay labi na kun wala gyud bug-at nga katuyoan. Kun kato usa lamang ka "joke" alang kaniya, may kamatooran kini kadto usa ka yaga-yaga diha kanimo ug sa inyong panaghigugmaay. Sa akong pangagpas gihulat ug giantos na lamang niya hangtod moabot ang takna nga mapul-an ka na gayud kaniya para makab-ot niya ang iyang kagawasan. Karon ang saktong takna alang kaniya.
Bisan pa man nga dili siya mosugot nga taposan na lamang ang inyong panaghinugmaay wala siya'y mabuhat kun bug-at imong baruganan. Unsa may dugayan sa kun kamong duha nag-antos diay. Matod mo may kausaban na diha kaniya ug ikaw usab. Wala nay igong rason pa para mag inunugay kamo bisan pa man sa kadugay na sa inyong pagminahalay. Bisan pa man sa ingon kini akoa pangagpas ug sugyot lamang gikahinaot ko gihapon nga mahilot ug matul-id ninyo kining tanan.
TS and to BF,
LOVE has many faces..
Self-love: This is the kind of love that involves accepting oneself, believing in and knowing oneself
Friendship Love: This type of love exists between friends who like one another, show commitment to one another, and share deep and intimate feelings with one another
Comfortable Love: This type of love also involves caring, showing concern and being available.
Romantic Love: Characterized by intimacy and passion
Infatuation: This type of relationship places premium on physical characteristics.
Complete Love: is any combination of the above mentioned (as many combination as you want to have on the above mentioned)
.. and it all depends on how you see your love to one another..
yes! every relationship will come to a plateau and will become sooooooo boring to be with one another.. what you do is to change on another face of LOVE.. meaning kapuy kaayo kung sige lang mo romantic love dibah? sometimes you try self love or even friendship love.. like mag date kuno mo nga dili mu uyab.. kanang date mo as friends or barkada.. no holding hands and no sweetums.. laag lang with friends and all..
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I admit that i did not have a perfect relationship with my ex bf.. but one thing I was proud of was that I had the courage to end it to preserve our FRIENDSHIP.. to the point that we had to plan when we will part ways (gi sabotan namo kanus-a mi mag buwag ---- on our second anniversary).. hahaha.. wierd? nah..
we had planned it on JAN 2012 and anniversary was on MARCH.. so before the EXPIRY DATE came, we spent our last 3months together in many different ways.. and when we parted ways, it was difficult because we got used in being with each other's company.. almost 24/7 mi kuyog.. but all I was thinking was, "we had to give each other a chance to be happy --- maybe with someone else.".. I kept on telling myself that "if we were really meant for each other, then time and destiny will bring us back together"..
breaking-up does not mean you stop loving each other.. but giving enough space to make each one more happier..
and you know what guys, naa na siya uyab karon.. but at some point the bond between us would never break that we still look forward in seeing each other not as LOVERS... but as each others confidant, partner and soul mates (i don't know how he feels but that's how i feel)..
and he knows, that beyond word, how much I had loved him even if I decided to let him go..
to BF: salute to you for still keeping it up.. even if you are in doubt you are still holding on.. amay nalang ang laki nga ingun ana..
to GF: knowing that he is trying to work it out, WORK WITH HIM PLEASE.. relationship is a two way process.. as they say "it takes TWO to TANGGO!"![]()
you should not break up ui thats not a big reason........ you should find something new to do and to enjoy... do crazy thiings to spice up your relationship aku pa larga2 mu or try different location for extra activities like c.r the roof of your house side sa highway trunk CR sa hotel during dawn of your car these things will make you smile and realize that we done things other people havnt
hmmmm ani nlng TS give her/him a time mga 2 weeks para pod maka huna2x mo kng unsay mawala ninyo kng mag buwag mo kng importanti ba jd cya nimo or importanti ba jd ka nya observe sah inyo relation karon dont rush thing kay daghan nagmahay sa last kng paminaw nimo nga d njd nimo kaya or paminaw nimo murag blatik nlng iyang gpakita nimo ayaw mao nana nga time nga potlon nlng nimo ang iyong relasyon :d
if napalong na ang "eternal flame" of love nimu TS para smong yayabs k pg "all my bags are packed im redi to go" nlng. dili na uso ang martyr nieverra show Karon., X-FACTOR nah! meowrk
let go and move on..ana lang..
although some things are easier said than done..
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