If you were the husband/wife....

[astro boy]

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Confront your partner about it and ask him why he did that. Listen to his side first before you judge coz theres always two sides of the coin. Most importantly, weigh things carefully and dont be clouded by jealousy and anger.

At any rate, I hope you both can solve things kay basin ma patch up diay. Dont forget to to pray and ask god for his wisdom and guidance to see things through.

[twalalyn]

Confront your partner about it and ask him why he did that. Listen to his side first before you judge coz theres always two sides of the coin. Most importantly, weigh things carefully and dont be clouded by jealousy and anger.

At any rate, I hope you both can solve things kay basin ma patch up diay. Dont forget to to pray and ask god for his wisdom and guidance to see things through.

Thanks astro boy!That's what I did and got both sides even from the girl...I just want to move on & I've prayed to guide us coz I can't be sure where we are heading.It's only been 3 days so I know I have so much pain & anger & just too much thinkin that I feel lyk my brain is also ready to burst.

[kaspaguz]

pYterA sa imong bana TS! jokjok jok pa man hahhaha sa married life kaming mga laki mu reminisce jud sa among macho days sometimes we hang out wit gurls ,sometimes we set perspective to some lady friends but its not that we invest our emotions, maybe to some guys but for me fling fling lang gud para mapraktis ghapun nako sa akong wife ang gilok, dili sa bed ha kung di ang kilig if you know what i mean

[ishmot0i]

hala..lain najud karng mga panahona..naa jud mga babae nah mga BAGA ug nawong nga di mag.duha.duha ug patol sa mga laki nga minyo nah.. ambot ois ug nganong nagkadaghan naman ni cla..
aq di q maldita nah pagka.taw..di q nahan namang mga confrontation pero if naa gani mg.samok.samok sa among 2 sa aqng bana..nah basin makat.on jud q bah..

TS, stay strong.. i know trial lang ni ni LORD.. basta keep in mind lang jud nah whatever decision you make di ka malkanse ug ang imung anak.. if di nah xia (hubby) nimu then let go..

[twalalyn]

hala..lain najud karng mga panahona..naa jud mga babae nah mga BAGA ug nawong nga di mag.duha.duha ug patol sa mga laki nga minyo nah.. ambot ois ug nganong nagkadaghan naman ni cla..
aq di q maldita nah pagka.taw..di q nahan namang mga confrontation pero if naa gani mg.samok.samok sa among 2 sa aqng bana..nah basin makat.on jud q bah..

TS, stay strong.. i know trial lang ni ni LORD.. basta keep in mind lang jud nah whatever decision you make di ka malkanse ug ang imung anak.. if di nah xia (hubby) nimu then let go..

Thank u!Di pud ko eng-Ana ka maldita but I had to ask her thru e-mail coz I felt lyk it will give me a better closure & ease the pain.My husband did apologize but I said I wasn't ready to take it,yet,coz he has to earn it & there's work to be done for him to fix our relationship.He wants to stay and he knows already what he needs to do to rebuild US...

[dangelndisguise]

kagwapa nimo twalan unya giingon ana ka..

ay dah.. mabawsan ra na sila.

[ondoy]

ang kadtong their maoy ng guba sailang home ky kabalo na cya daan nga husband na imong bana - liboga hehe

gi himo ra ni "their" nga scapegoat imong husband hehe

[twalalyn]

kagwapa nimo twalan unya giingon ana ka..

ay dah.. mabawsan ra na sila.

Salamat,dangelndisguise!!!Maabot ra nah karma...

[twalalyn]

ang kadtong their maoy ng guba sailang home ky kabalo na cya daan nga husband na imong bana - liboga hehe

gi himo ra ni "their" nga scapegoat imong husband hehe

Ondoy:maybe!ang profile pic sa girl is her & her baby prolly less than a year old...Mao nang naka anah ko nga why would u ruin Us & including ur own family.

[spike412]

kani bitaw na mga klase sa babae kay og istoryahon ni nimo kay tarong kaayo... abi nimo imong bana naay sala gyud...pero og imo gyud mahibaw-an tanan nahitabo ang gurl naa gyud syay participation para makahimo og sayop ang laki... it takes two to tango. don't tell me unwilling ang bae ani... nagbiga gyud ni silang duha ts... mu-ingon lang og joke joke... makalagot gyud og huna huna na naa babae ani sa kalibutan mga homewrecker nagbaha na sila ron. pray for your marriage ts. i am sure makaya ra ni nimo.