Ngano magsige man gyud istorya kinsa'y gwapo kinsa'y gwapa? I object!

[Streetcar]

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I dont think there is anything wrong with it at all. Everyone has that opportunity to post their photos so that is entirely up to them if they want to or not. Just because some people aren't posting theirs does not mean to say that they aren't considered beautiful or they are being made inferior by others. Its their choice. Some people aren't comfortable enough doing that and some others do. The key there is confidence and appreciation. And if others compliment beautiful people, well, it can very well make their day, so why not. Everyone is posting decently naman and they're having fun and they are doing so at their own expense, not anyone else's. Either you take it or leave it but i have no right to spoil anyone's day. That's my frank honest opinion.

[CrasHBURN]

It is simply like a competition. out of 5000 entries, and ang maka daug 10-15 ra. So, if wala imo name na mention, either you are a winner or maybe, sa ka daghan sa pili-an, na labyan ka. So nothing to worry... if this guy knows 50 beautiful women here, and can only enumerate 1 or 2... kay maybe special na niya or something... bla bla... i have no problem ani, I dont care if ma post ako name dinha or dili, its up to you na if feel nimo bati ka ug hulagway if dili ka ma mention. Nothing's wrong with it, unless there is something wrong with you.

hmm... I can't remember the last time I visited this forum...hehehe...

[Gwynhuever]

ako wa ko blema ani kay gwapa man ko he he he....bitaw parehas ra gud na nga ang discussion sad about who is sexy and not...nya ang automatic votes mo adto dayon sa mga slim slight physiques...nya kami tawng mga chubby hon...bilbilon...tambokon...di na diay mi sexy? nga unta sexiness is a state of mind man...it is more than just the pysique....it is how you carry and express yourself diba....nya unsaon man nga naa mna jud stereotyping nga automatic ...

ani na lang akong ending...i will use the old time cliche..."beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"....char....he he he

[rudjard]

nagka-init na ang atong pagkukabildo sa inyong mabulukong opinion, sa unang hugna pa lamang inyo nang na-ipabuhagay ang
lain-lain ninyong pagtan-aw sa duha ka butang "GWAPA / GWAPO KA O DILI".
hinaut lang unta nga wala lang untay mahi-ubos o magmahay sa mga opiniong nang gawas dinhi.

sa akong opinion, usa ka dakong garbo ang matawag ug usa ka AMBUNGAN ug angay kining pasalamatan, apan dili angayng tamayon ang usa ka binuhat nga gikawangan sa usa ka pisikal nga anyo, tungod kai ang matuod nga pagkaambungan naga-gikan sa kasing-kasing.
maayong gabii. :mrgreen:

[zer0_cooL]

well... if katong ma insecure kay wla ila name d ila na ibutang para gwapa/gwapo sad cla.. anywayz wla sad jud btaw cla kita sa tanan pipz dri sa istorya.net hehehe....

pro kung ganahan jud ang isa ka tao na mabutang iya name sa gwapa/gwapo list sa istorya na ipabutang na ila name didto wla btaw nagboot nla kung cla ang mubutang....

i dont like beauty pageants too, wla xa purpose nako excpet to let the people know nw gwapa ka hehehe

[n`gel]

Hey you guys, impressed ko sa discussion really. But take out the impression that I myself am insecure because I'm not. I'm just really a critique of stereotypes... some degree of feminism in my veins that's probably it.... especially men talking too much about stereotypes and nurses. This is not about craving attention, please be MORE mature than that, but it's about something deeper.

You've made a lot of good points and I appreciate all your thoughts. afterall, this proves most istoryans have higher degree of confidence and self-worth gyud diay. Although I'd be happy to hear from the timids and the shy's.

But hold on... yeahhhh that's right. This proves that we Filipinos hardly hardly give sooo much importance to "unattractiveness" if there is such a word compared to other countries like here in the US where people are so crazy over looking good, surgeries here and there, diets everywhere. Filipinos are innately proud of themselves indeed.

caused gen chit tremor huh! Finally! hahaha sige padayon

[n`gel]

I guess what's really crucial for me is that "standard of comparison". I agree that beauty is not equal to "gwapa" or "gwapo"... perhaps I should then use "gwapa" and "gwapo" stereotyping. Unsa ma'y common ninyo nga preference sa gwapa ug gwapo kuno be? Tell me. Moingon kaha mo nga si zoraida gwapa? Be kuno be.

We're talking about "lookism" here...

"The term lookism is used to describe discrimination against others based on their appearance. Lookism relates to received notions of beauty and cultural stereotyping based on appearance as well as gender roles and expectations."

Now, is there really discrimination in the positive, that is what you guys have been saying. Pulos man pud positive appreciation diri, wala may nanaway kay bati siya nawng or this and that. Do you really think wala gyuy ni gamay nga impact sa mga dili "gwapo" or dili "gwapa"? Tell me. Naa gyuy degree of reservation I tell you that.

[han]

We're talking about "lookism" here...

"The term lookism is used to describe discrimination against others based on their appearance. Lookism relates to received notions of beauty and cultural stereotyping based on appearance as well as gender roles and expectations."

Now, is there really discrimination in the positive, that is what you guys have been saying. Pulos man pud positive appreciation diri, wala may nanaway kay bati siya nawng or this and that. Do you really think wala gyuy ni gamay nga impact sa mga dili "gwapo" or dili "gwapa"? Tell me.

so meaning, naa jud diay mga dili gwapo og gwapa nga Istoryan?
kung mao mang galing na, should there be atleast 10 of them nga moingon nga dili sila gwapo/gwapo and those threads affected them in so many ways much more on their self-confidence, come forward and post here seriously. I and mean Seriously!

humans as we are, inig kita nato sa pictures nga gipangpost sa ubang nga gwapa/gwapo para sa ilaha, usahay maka ana ta, ah gwapa/gwapo ra man na cya kay naay make up and this and that or simply maka ingon ka nga gwapa cya pero di nako type iyang beauty. simple as that.

I challenge those people nga naghunahuna "maypa sila gwapa og gwapo, ako tawn bati kaayo og nawng ..huhuh" to come forward.

bottom line here is that I don't think ingon ana nalang sad ka mabaw og utok ang mga tao diri nga ga post sa Istorya.(not unless mabaw jud diay kaayo sila'g utok nga maghuna-huna sila og ma insecure tungod kai pirme hisgutan ang mga gwapo ra og gwapa)

mo agree ko nga naay uban nga bulabog kaayo mo post, naa uban walay sense but hey, we can't really tell what these people are really thinking simply because usa kani ka forum nga pwede nimo ipagawas imong gibati, opinion nga kataw-anan og opinion nga tarong, mga kabuang ( hinungdang nga ang uban ma muted, banned or warned)

gwapa ka o dili? gwapo ka o dili? doesn't matter. mokunot gihapon ka inig labay sa mga adlaw..


issue's not a big deal if one comes to think of it.

[n`gel]

Ana man tang mga pinoy, I bet ya wala'y mosulti nga ako bati ko ug nawng. Ug moingon man gani, naay pakapin sige lang buotan man ko. Probably truly proves nga proud gyud tang mga pinoys. And taas² ug panglantaw as far as being gwapa/gwapo is concerned. Which is really good.

Which really boils down to... I guess it's not a big deal tinuod. Oh well, I guess my worrying for the timids and the shys and the insecures' a waste of time.

[Ms.Beau]

Come to think of it ngel, protecting the insecure and the timid is not empowering at all. i'd rather have people openly acknowledge their own preferences (like stating who for them are gwapa or gwapo) and not apologize for it as it encourages others to do the same.

I noticed that many Istoryans here love Red Horse. I bet they'd prefer that to fruit juice. It wouldnt make sense to feel sorry for the fruit juice, would it?