If your boyfriend falls out of love...

[j0dz]

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travel mo duha out of town for 3 days ba ron.. it would be great kai summer - e try daw nah! basin wa na siya ka kita ug sparks sa inyo relasyon or thrill. Nya while on the trip, inyo storyaan inyo mga kaagi (char) basin pa diay mabuhi ug balik iya gugma sa imu ses..

it's the least you can do para ug unsa ang resulta di ka magmahay. (at least u'v tried)

[SeptemberII]

Falling out of love simply means that person never loved you at all
Based on experience na haha akong uyab pina ingun pag " ni fall out of love naman ko nmo oi" aw sus, naa nadiay ka fling lain. Tsk

[Klave]

Falling out of love simply means that person never loved you at all
Based on experience na haha akong uyab pina ingun pag " ni fall out of love naman ko nmo oi" aw sus, naa nadiay ka fling lain. Tsk

Your case is sad but I would disagree that the love was entirely none existent.
Kay that is like saying that part of your life with that person never existed.
The amount of time and effort you spent in the relationship cannot be denied.

Most of the cases where naay third party, the victim would usually be taken by surprise.
If they just think about the amount of hours that the possibility of cheating could have occured,
maybe it could have been avoided, or at least be seen coming towards them.

So do your detective work.

[azaleayve]

thanks sa tnan opinion guys, actually wla nako kahibaw unsa pay kulang kay wla jud ko nag bnuang nya for almost 6 years.. iyaha napud ko gi ingnan before na wana xay love, kato maoy nasakitan jud ko pro nibalik raman pd iya love nako.. this is the 2nd time, maong wla na kaayoy kurat nako.. i have talked to him personally the other day, i told him to decide kung makig buwag ba sya nako, ni ingun ra sya "naglibog ko" theres a part of him daw na gnahan na sya makig buwag, but naa pud daw part na dli sya gnahan..

it makes me more confused jud! huhuhu

TS, murag kaila ko nimo (not personally though) but the way you say 6 years mu uyab and twice na siya nibuwag sa imo, i guess i know this love story.. And did you chose serendipity as a username because of the movie Serendipity?.. Does that someone told you that you'll let fate decide on you?

[quirkychinita]

thanks sa tnan opinion guys, actually wla nako kahibaw unsa pay kulang kay wla jud ko nag bnuang nya for almost 6 years.. iyaha napud ko gi ingnan before na wana xay love, kato maoy nasakitan jud ko pro nibalik raman pd iya love nako.. this is the 2nd time, maong wla na kaayoy kurat nako.. i have talked to him personally the other day, i told him to decide kung makig buwag ba sya nako, ni ingun ra sya "naglibog ko" theres a part of him daw na gnahan na sya makig buwag, but naa pud daw part na dli sya gnahan..

it makes me more confused jud! huhuhu

According to Beyonce knowles.....

"If I'm not your everything, how about I'll be nothing, nothing at all to you?"

according to tyga of twitter:

"The scariest thing about falling in love is getting hurt. The scariest thing about getting hurt is not being able to love again"

Naigo ka ani no?

I guess you gotta follow CraveMyThoughts who said:

"I admit, I really miss how things used to be. But I can also admit, that I’ve accepted the fact that things changed."

and

"if you can't be a priority don't be an option!"

according to IAdoreWomen:

"Most times she keeps going back to a guy who treats her bad, because she's not ready to give up hope that maybe someday he'll change."

maybo you wanna follow those people from twitter and maybe get some advises from them....

They did help me.

[honexxx]

pasagda-i ts. ayaw gyud gukod. back up plan. plan b, c, d, and so on.

[fieldygabs]

ts - naa dyud guro batasan nimo or naa something nimo nga rasun mao ma turn off cya, sharo naman sad wa cya kahatag ug verbal cues... paminaw and change that thing para ma improve ang inyo relationship...

[Slapkid]

Try something new...If you know what I mean.

[lejean]

TS? You know what? The guy did not love you much as you think he did. If i-track back nato inyoha love story from the beginning, did he pursue you in such a way na gipanguyaban ka, di sya katog, grabe au gukod nimo para mo yes raka? or was it casually done, out of convenience, or kaw patay kaayo nya kay lake man lagi sya ni sud nalang sya ane lisud na balibaran ang girl? I think mo matter jud ne.

Kay ang guy baya noh, di na sila mapugos. Bisan unsaon pa nimo og tumbling dha if di na sila, di na jud sila. Di pareha sa mga girls ang dili pwede paman ma yes depende sa diskarte sa lalake.

As they say, if you fall in love everything that is wrong with the person mahimo right... and he should accept you wholeheartedly no conditions, bisan pa kaw ang pinakalmaldita ning kalibutana, i-accept ka nya kay he loves you baya. But if love do fades, kay tawo ra lage ta mo-abot sa punto na emotions set in then it all boils down to one thing, he never loves you fully that he can accepts everything about you.

but as to your question, how to get him back to you?

base sa ako experience... ang lalake love man jud ko nya, ako nakigbuwag niya, but time comes na wanted to go back to him pero doubtful ko if dawaton ko nya after what i have done... i simply texted him, hi,musta naka. and he replied, makigbalik ka nako? i replied to him, how you know? he texted me, coz i know you and i know na makigbalik jud ka naku i do not know when. if uban pa to lalake after all sa ako gibuhat di na makigbalik nako ui, pero he told me in front of me na he does love me, naghuwat ra jud sya nako and he knows me very well, my attitude...

basically TS, lahe ra jud kung lalaki in love jud nimo kaysa ana taphaw ra na pgka love...

but if you want, try these tips basin pa d-i he will come back to you but this does not mean na he is going to fall in love totally head over heels nimo ha?

-be his friend, supporter, and recognize every little gesture he does
-never nag, or argue for argument sake
-help him reach his dreams and goals
-of course, last but not the least, when you have s** be sure di jud sya kalimot nimo. give him the ultimate high na wala niya na tilawan sa uban... this does not mean mg-exhibition ka? there are still things you can do to make a guy go crazy over you in bed like muscle control.

[sweetslashy]

Ts, simply thank him for everything that he has done good to you. Then, let go of him. He probably needs more space. Move on with your life without any expectation that he'll be back to you. God moves in mysterious ways, the best man is yet to come..in God's time!