need your thoughts on this

[shiira]

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maayo unta lgi imong kastorya open-minded pd. ug kung dili ky dako kaayong gubot jd. up to the point nga demeaning na kaayo ang manggawas sa baba bah. i tried to open up mn sa ilaha nga gnahan ko maglain. giingnan rako nga ngano gd tawn.

[spike412]

sus tiguwang naman ka ts..you know what to do... as a mature adult you talk to your parents that you want respect from them and og gusto ka maglain na hala ingna sila. mura man ka way buot magistorya uy... talk to your parents dili man tingali ana pud kasalbahi imong parents og tarungon nimo og storya...like what you said you've handled CEO's. makarelate ko nimo kay i too, came from a very strict parents. the solution? don't lie, tell them the truth. be honest in everything you say para dili ka mahadlok. kaya ra na lagi nimo. goodluck!

[ryan22]

@TS if i were you? i'd pack up my things & leave...
anyway independent naman ka, just have to explain to them your reasons..
whether they like it or not d naka angay ma konsensya considering matod pa nmo
gud girl jud ka...

mas maau pa rent ka imo own room/flat TS..
once maka tilaw ka sa FREEDOM d najud ka mobalik sa inyo..hehe

[Meebo]

TS, live your life. you only get one. At your age your parents should understand na you can stand up on your own.. you should make them feel as well na ang ilang treatment nimo also shows the way they raised you. If your already 27 but they still act like your 15 doesnt that make them look bad? if they really feel na they did good when it comes to raising you, they should set you free. kay if they raised you right then there is no need to be so overprotective right? whats the point of raising a kid only to end up being so dependent on the ones who raised them? dont they want to see you grow, be independent and all that jazz? sa different side pd sa coin, maybe naa pd kay traits na gipa kita na maka ingon pd cla na di pa ka ready, like for instance, "combined income of 100k", so 50k ka silbi? why dont u move out? ka daku ana.. show them you are ready.. ana man jud ta tanan padung btaw, magpa lahi jud ta sa atong mga parents.. kung mahadlok ka.. look at your parents like clients sila.. like its another day at work.. hehehehe.. para di kaau kuyaw.. you cannn doooo iittttt!

[shiira]

hmm not reli 50k woi. ang partner maoy mas dako jd ug sweldo.

@spike412 mkalagot na ingnan ko nmo ug way buot. hehehe pero tnuod btaw. kung sila akong kastorya murag mawagtang akong tarung nga panghuna2. i feel like a kid who has to let mom decide everything sa iya life. Part of me is hesitant mn mo tarung ug storya sa akong mama. Magstorya kag butang nga in-ana is agressive iya dayon cya. Makahinumdom ko sa tanan na gbuhat nya nko pag bata - like katong nanumbag cya, iparuk ko sa wall, bunalan ug hangers til mabali etc. Mura kog magkurog maghuna2 pa lang daan na speak up.


nweiz, salamat kayo sa mga thoughts ninyo guys. it all boils down jd to courage lng to tell them.if only they're a bit open-minded lng unta para ma lessen akong fear nila.

[brian joshua]

dako-ag sweldo ninyo gd? murag kasagran makaabot ana nabelong na man sa mga junior executives or senior management level...

[bungot25]

my only advice is Dont Fear.

[xavisimao]

stand-up on your own TS, it's about time...you're matured enough to handle life as it should be

may I ask, naghatagan ka ug kwarta sa imong parents?

[lhorenzoo]

you are almost nearing 30 na man diay ts. go on your own na. you have a career and your bf loves you.

[ondoy]

kulang rka ug courage to do what you wanted,ur afraid about their reaction.

how will you know if you wont try it?..

as long as you have plans if ever negative or positive ilang reaction then go for it...kysa mag regret ka and say nga sus mypa gi buhat nako to da...