Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[n`gel]

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For me it's just but normal nga lahi-lahi ang bation when moving on. Different situations, different reasons why the break up, same thing... transition.

It could be...

1. Lisud i-move on kay grabe pa ang imo love sa taw... especially if you're the dumped ouch! heartache gyud na. Or perhaps naay third-party super double ouch!

2. Or perhaps inlove pa kaayo mo sa usa'g-usa pero because of uncontrollable situations or obstacles kinahanglan mo magbuwag... ouch pud.

3. Or even inyohang duhang decision... to some extent naa gyuy hurt feeling in some way.

That feeling of rejection is too powerful it can bring you to tears or lose self-worth or confidence... probably in a short while pero para naku in some ways bisan unsa pa reason sa break up naa gyud nang feeling either feeling rejected or sadness/loneliness nga wala na siya... "change" mo nay word. Especially kung makauyab na, in some ways pud maapektuhan ka nga sa una kaw ang pinangga kaw ang love and then karon lain na.

When it comes to matters of the heart I don't give advices too easily because I know dili lalim ang heartache... however "tanga" nga love or "UGG" a heartache is a heartache and moving on is hard especially kung nainlove ka sa taw. I say "time" lang gyud. You cannot set a schedule, you cannot force your heart to stop being hurt, pwede ra nimo baliwaon yes, divert your attention on other things or people.

Lain² pud ta how we deal with heartaches, naay mga taw nga maglisud sila disiplina sa ila heart naa puy uban nga super mind over heart masakitan man galing sila pero dali ra sila ka control especially kanang mga garbuso nga taw. So we really cannot generalize. As to redjnep... normal ra nang ingon ana that only means you still wish nga ma gf nimo siya balik. She probably was somebody exceptional to you mao na ingon ana imo feeling wala gihapon ka ka get over but the thing is... basin siya naka get over na nimo.

We also need to assess within ourselves after the "emote" "sakit akong heart" part hangtud kanus-a ta magsakit. Anha na mo play ang mind... dapat pa ba mag-ingon ani or ana... is it time to give up na... ACCEPTANCE. And then eventually you just won't notice it... naka move on naka.

So basically para naku wala na siya'y timeframe... and everybody is different... depende how serious the past relationship was... unsay reason sa break-up... and how much love was given. Hilak kung hilak, inom kung inom, yaw kaon kung di ka, pagmokmok, exhaust yourself from all the sadness (basta yaw lang pakamatay) di ba kapuyan raman ka. Ig abot sa kapoy you'd feel stupid and you'd look back and say ... "hehe ahaka naku sa?"

[miss tapya]

:mrgreen: @n`gel

So basically para naku wala na siya'y timeframe... and everybody is different... depende how serious the past relationship was... unsay reason sa break-up... and how much love was given. Hilak kung hilak, inom kung inom, yaw kaon kung di ka, pagmokmok, exhaust yourself from all the sadness (basta yaw lang pakamatay) di ba kapuyan raman ka. Ig abot sa kapoy you'd feel stupid and you'd look back and say ... "hehe ahaka naku sa?"

...ka relate man sad ta ana mam.. remember this person baya hangtod karon...sa kanta pa..i remember the boy but dont remember the feelings anymore. magkatawa nlang ko maghunahuna how i stupid i become during those days nga ga heart heart akong mata tungod sa tao..and then after which iyak iyak... naks

[r0mm3L]

just keep on drinkin red horse

[sakurai999]

just keep on drinkin red horse

:mrgreen:

[mata_hari]

In a relationship, it can't be denied that there'll came a time na magkalabuan..break ups and every thing related to brokenheartedness.

this thread is more of survey, share ur point of views. Kinsa ang mas una maka MOVE ON... ang LALAKI ba. or ang BABAE...

Depende ra jud... kinsa may mas in love? the person who has the least love or initiated the break up would heal the soonest.

[if_i_aint_got_u]

im moving ON... life g0es On.... im a better person now..
"" Take my heart back
Leave your pictures on the floor
Steal back my memories
I can't take it anymore
I've cried my eyes out
Oh,and now I face the years
The way you loved me
Vanished all the tear "" [ jennifer love hewitt ]

[sakurai999]

:mrgreen: @n`gel

...ka relate man sad ta ana mam.. remember this person baya hangtod karon...sa kanta pa..i remember the boy but dont remember the feelings anymore. magkatawa nlang ko maghunahuna how i stupid i become during those days nga ga heart heart akong mata tungod sa tao..and then after which iyak iyak... naks

:mrgreen:

[n`gel]

will power

easy to say hard to do

[lhykah]

movin' on
is plainly
choosing wat feel or how we feel
if you choose not to...
then there is no problem

remember: its mind over heart jd ta

[phruckthoy]

i am moving on for my future..